when work wolf ghosted me,
i was a hot ass mess in these forests.
i can see just how crazy i was looking.
check the whole archives.
i felt like i was losing my whole mind.
when i called karaoke crying one night,
and saw the comments of full draggings on the foxhole,
i knew i was in a whole other dimension.
the crazy part is he wasn’t fucking me and checked “straight”.
see there is ghosting after a one night stand and then there’s…
Ghosting after getting emotionally attached
the ones you call your “friends” can ghost you too.
during whatever that situation was,
was someone who made me feel good about myself.
he was everything i thought i’d want in a wolf.
texting me every single day,
have deep ass conversations,
going out regularly,
open to trying new things,
and saw me for more than just a gay male.
he legit acted like he accepted me for me.
so when he ghosted me,
it fucked me all the way up.
it was at work.
he would walk past me like i was invisible.
he’d put extra sauce on speaking to others while i was there.
he was hanging with these randoms at work.
the worst was hearing how was talking shit about me.
everyone was taking his side as “victim” and believing the story.
he didn’t have social media,
so i couldn’t stalk his page with a fake account.
mine woulda been: pussybegood69
i was constantly talking about him to others,
checking my phone to see if he’d text,
and act like i was doing good in hopes he would see me at work.
when i left that job,
he would constantly stay on my mind.
every song and movie would be a reminder.
it would have me so depressed.
there would be this consistent mental battle of:
“what did i do wrong?”
“maybe i shouldn’t have said/done that?”
“he ain’t shit anyway…”
“fuck him… nah, wait…”
“i thought he was my friend…”
“i hope he falls head first into a volcano…”
i’ve been ghosted before,
but this one…
this one was different because of the “possibility”.
he made me feel like there was a possibility.
i didn’t look at his character tho.
i witnessed him ghost vixens and bad mouth them to me.
everyone “did something to him” to get dismissed,
but what he didn’t realize,
he was the problem and we all shared a story.
while watching episode “obsessed like” on “insecure”,
i felt so triggered.
everything issa was doing in her ghosting was accurate.
others may judge and laugh,
but i pray they never meet someone that would do that to them. you’re left wondering…
What did I do to deserve this?
that ghosting shit breaks you down.
i hope i always have the balls to tell someone why i’m done.
lowkey: i’m glad that “work wolf” saga helped so many.
i still get emails from those with their own “work wolves”.