you will not get along with everyone.
there will be times you will beef with certain folks you meet.
this whole mo’nique issue made me sit and think about being blackballed.
with so many sensitive personalities nowadays,
it’s easy for someone to have you eradicated from what you love.
you gotta cater to their fragile egos in fear you being ruined.
the manager vixen who wants to make all the males her bitches
the gay supervisor that can get catty if you don’t flirt back with him
the snow wolf who is borderline racist but tolerant to an extent
even working a simple 9 to 5 with some of these managers and supervisors.
i had to wonder…
How do you really get banished?
too much attitude
there are many ways that someone can shut your whole shit down.
sometimes it’s the small stuff that you don’t realize.
you don’t cater to someone’s ego like they are use to and down you go.
it’s sad that we have to add this in our career advancement woes.
when you are black,
it’s even worse.
you can be nice as hell,
smile like something off a beauty pageant,
but be dismissed by that one hyena or jackal doesn’t like you.
when i write on the foxhole,
i give my honest opinion on various topics/people.
whatever i font on here,
i’d probably say it to someone’s face.
i’m always open to being corrected if i’m wrong.
never disrespectful tho.
i know the art of being nice,
but still being honest.
some out here are just rude af and will try to hurt feelings.
that’s a no-no.
even in being fired from the jobs i’ve had.
i don’t slander my bosses or go out of my way to make them look bad.
they have done that to me.
there are many ways someone can have you banished.
as we can learn from this mo’nique saga,
sometimes the best complaint is none at all.
“let go and let God”.
does this mean we shouldn’t speak out against anything/anyone?
and “tyler perrys” of the world are off limits?
do we have to play the game in order to win?
and is it even right to give your honest opinion?
or is better to lie?
so i had to ask the foxhole…
What do you have to do to REALLY avoid being banished?
lowkey: how do charlamagne,
and others avoid the “blacklisted” plague?