this is sad.
^this is the front page of the student newspaper at unc at chapel hill.
the home of yet another mass shooting.
i hate to be the bearer of bad news but…

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those who have ever been turned on felt empathy for megan thee stallion.
many of us foxholers know what that’s like.
when you go against “the popular one”,
it will be a whole army out to try to destroy you.
some live to tell the tale; others don’t.
even after tory lanez was sentenced to 10 years for his own behavior,
people are still not being kind to megan thee stallion…

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THANK GOD I HAVE WORKED IN CORPORATE THE MAJORITY OF MY LIFE.

i had to put that in all caps for the following.
i nearly would have gotten scammed if i wasn’t paying attention today.
this wasn’t an entry i planned on writing today but:

I’m going to teach The Foxhole how to look out for scams.

tl;dr: i am looking for a WFH part-time job.
a friend sent me a link to “career vault“,
a site dedicated to WFH positions.
when i applied for a data entry position at ymca south florida,
it took me to a gmail account to send my resume/cover letter.
i found that odd but the response was when i called cap…

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Did you know that if you are gay/trans and are killed by a straight male,
he may get off from seeing any jail time because of something called the “gay panic defense”?

shocking,
right?
bet some of you didn’t know this as i didn’t.
i learned about it while watching the last episode of “last call: when a serial killer stalked queer new york” on max.
during the hyena’s first murder in college,
where he killed a gay male and dumped him in the ocean,
they used that defense that allowed him his freedom.
if they would have hauled his ass to prison in 1973,
he wouldn’t have gone on years later to brutally murder other gays.
big yikes,
right?
let’s look deeper at the law via wiki…

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this was sitting on my spirit and i was urged to font this.
from the desk of the foxhole.

We have to stop getting mad because people don’t agree with us.

People will not like us because we are black.
People will not like us because we are gay.
People will not like us because we are trans.
People will not like us because we are non-binary.
People will not like us because we are people.

when it comes to sexuality or gender…

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“When you keep meeting the same male over and over,
they are all trying to teach you something.”

the a-ha moment.
someone said that to me over the weekend and it was profound.
it felt like it cleared my sinuses and put me in another timeline.
after i sat and thought about it,
all of those wolves that broke me all had the same scent…

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