we gotta be careful who we let in our lives.
he might look like everything you asked for,
but he could be getting ready to prey on you too.
you won’t know until you feel you cannot live without them.
that is how far into your mind they go.
abuse doesn’t always happen with a fist.
mental and emotional abuse is far worse.
i know them all too well.
my home-vixen dealt with hers in the form of her baby father…
now she didn’t know he was the way he was.
he started out perfect.
good looking wolf,
and was charismatic as hell.
he told her “i won’t ever leave your side”.
she was going to marry him after she gave birth to his cub.
well that came to a screeching halt.
he was fuckin’ 3 other vixens on the side.
when he was caught,
he tried to act like he didn’t know what was going on.
she had all the receipts in her email.
he claimed he would do better and she went back.
the second act was hell.
he was playing a game with all of them.
they didn’t realize it,
but they were all fighting for his affection.
since my home-vixen was the only one to have a cub with him,
she desperately wanted to make it work.
she didn’t want to be embarrassed.
after all the games,
she broke up with him and kicked him out her spot.
this was a year ago.
she has grown tremendously since then.
well he called her today to talk about their cub,
but to try and hurt her,
“my girlfriend loves our daughter.
she loves spending time with her.”
you know who the the “girlfriend” is?
the one who revealed his cheating.
the one who showed my home-vixen all the proof.
he was cheating with her too.
now that i know how socio’s work,
she is probably under his spell heavy.
my mother was a good one.
i’m realizing now that mi is one.
ww had tendencies.
i didn’t know they had a title for how they operated,
but when i went sniffing around google,
i saw all of their personality traits before my eyes.
you might be under the control of one now.
one who isn’t even in your life anymore.
confronting them does nothing.
they will smile in your face as you are cursing them out.
neither does outing them.
they will turn it on you to make you look like a liar.
they are the liars.
they try to make you look like who they really are.
you will never win with a socio or even a psychopath.
they have no soul or emotions.
“savages” are what they are.
some of them are so unhinged that they will kill you if you “unmask” them.
once the smoke has cleared,
they will come back around because you provide them with their “fill”.
they are like vampires.
“hey bighead” texts are their forte.
they will reward you by (mind) fucking your brains out.
once you let your guard down,
they will repeat the cycle again and again.
once they have no use for you,
they will discard you and that’s where you feel lost without them.
mi and ww did that to me.
i’m learning you cannot let them back in.
it’s best to block and leave them alone.
in the gay community,
they love those who are lonely or suffer from low self esteem.
be careful foxhole.
and narcissists all have common traits.