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long-term relationships that end up in marriage usually don’t work out.
i see it all the time with the straights,
so why should the gays be any different?
take sean (don) soto and his (maybe ex) husband,
charlie,
for example.
an F-BI sent me a message that had me do a little snooping…
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uh ooh…
the separate vacations.
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maybe…
charlie had to work and he couldn’t take off those 3 times?
i’m throwing shit at the wall.
when i went to sean’s page,
it def looks like a male who is living his best life alone.
there hasn’t been a post about his hubby since christmas in 2022.
i think this is them in this photo:
sean hasn’t posted anything this year.
he did post a story of him launching his business but hubs was not in any shots:
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sean doesn’t have his ring on either.
hmm.
he might have taken it off in the bathroom?i’m throwing shit at the wall.
so i went deeper in my search and took my investigation to another F-BI:
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…which led me to go find it for the purpose of this entry,
but charlie’s page is private.
the other F-BI continued:
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ETA: an F-BI came through with the proposal video:
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so here is the thing…
i need everyone to realize that marriage is tough.
it’s not always like the fairy-tale wedding.
sometimes the masks don’t fully fall off until the rings are on each other’s fingers.
there are countless reasons why a marriage might not work out.
some shit looked better on IG paper,
ya know?
when you add kids into the mix,
especially with someone who probably wasn’t ready,
it can add real weight to an already flimsy foundation.
if their marriage didn’t work out…
well,
it happens.
maybe after all that time dating,
they realized they were better off apart after they finally tied the knot.
sometimes when a marriage fails,
it can lead us to the person we are actually meant to be with. i’m just throwing shit at wall.
it’s better for it to fail in misery than be in the same house in misery,
ya know?
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let’s hope they are just taking some time apart.
we shall see how this story ends because i’m sure the F-BI will tell me.
Why do y’all care? Relationships and marriages end. Are y’all okay?
You’re on a site that primarily caters to Black entertainment and Black gay gossip and you actually asked why do people care.
Are YOU okay? This is not ConcreteLoop. The heck you expect? Political conversations and philosophy?
No lie, I’ve been peeped this. I know Sean in passing and just haven’t felt like it was something he wanted to share. It’s been a minute.