as gay males,
we have different lives than straight vixens.
we latch onto vixens because they can share our emotions at times.
they can “understand” us better than straight wolves can.
we can gossip and really let our hair down with them.
because of that,
we can become insanely protective over them.
how many of us have cockblocked ain’t shit negros from our “good sis”?
we admire their lives as they can admire ours.
so it can become a dope relationship but what i’m learning is…
After a certain age,
vixens start to crave marriage and motherhood.
…and they may end up leaving us alone to pursue that.
some vixens get almost desperate to say “i got that too“.
it can be fascinating to watch tbh.
this is when you don’t start to fit in the equation anymore.
your time is replaced with her speed dating on her biological clock.
a relationship that went from talking every day,
going out together,
and making memories start to drastically change.
we need to understand that our best vixens won’t be with us for long.
every vixen has a biological clock that starts to tick louder and louder.
as they age,
and they see others settling down,
they can hear the ticking within the silence.
Once they get that craving for “more”,
you will be pushed to the side as a result.
God forbid they meet a wolf who doesn’t like gay males.
they’ll sacrifice you for him.
i’ve seen some vixens go from “bad bitch” to “dumb bitch“.
it happens and it happens very fast as we start to get younger.
so while many gay males are on:
…our best friends may have been on the wave until the clock starts ticking.
will they be back?
i got more personal about this same exact situation on my patreon.
listen carefully to what i had to say.
lowkey: why do i feel like if we as gay males meet our partners,
we would act the same with the vixens in our lives?
nothing would change but maybe the stakes are higher in their relationships.
some of them will sell their souls for a man.