I want to reframe this situation from White Lotus.

you go on vacation and you see a wolf of interest.
your friend is showing interest so you tell your friend to hook up with him.
somehow,
you all end up getting close to him but your friend isn’t closing the deal.
either they are scared or being awkward.
after a couple days of this back and forth with them,
he is showing clear signs he wants you more.
so:

You end up hooking up with him and the sex is mind blowing.

your friend doesn’t know since it happened really late while they were sleep.
my question is…

Was this wrong for you to do this?

people are saying it was fucked up in that scene on white lotus to do that.
why?????
that wasn’t a potential boyfriend.
this was some random dude on vacation that worked out all year to look good naked.
he was in the gym to take vacation selfies and get ass while on a vacation.
your friend wasn’t making their move with the meat…

…because he wanted YOU instead.

i don’t see the problem.

Maybe he wasn’t attracted to your friend like he was with you?

that has nothing to do with you so…

…and if that makes me a hoe,
then i’ll be a “happy and freshly fucked on vacation” hoe.