we all know people can be addicted to physical abuse in their relationships.
some see it as love when he/she pops you upside the head.
one of my male bffs is in a abusive relationship and he 110% likes it…
he hit up to tell me his paw was hurting yesterday.
“I had to slap my girl outside my Christmas party.”
so i’m use to these stories from him.
she threw water on him outside in the cold.
in a blind rage,
he slapped her so hard that she ended up bleeding from her nose.
before you think she’s “the victim” in this story,
she always ends up putting paws on him.
this is not the first time this has happened.
she hasn’t been able to trust him since he cheated on her way back.
so in her insecure moments,
she will flip on him for dumb shit
i remember when he called me because she started fighting him while he was driving.
he was driving slow.
he does dumb shit to provoke her.
it’s usually over some really dumb shit too.
“Ya’ll are the most dysfunctional relationship I’ve ever witnessed.”
“It’s sad because I love her so I can’t leave.”
earlier this year,
he was over her when she took the keys to his car and locked him out their spot.
he called me going off at like 7am.
what happened after that?
they made up and got a new spot together.
he won’t leave.
she won’t leave.
they are gonna try counseling again.
it doesn’t seem to work because it always leads to this.
they been together for many years and it’s always been this kind of drama.
it feels like this is some kind of foreplay for these two.
i did ask him if they had sex when they got home.
they usually have this intense sex session after.
it’s full of “i love you” and “you know this is my shit” type of sex.
he said they didn’t have sex when they got home.
this was serious then.
what’s crazy is when i looked at the pictures of them at the christmas party,
i smiled because they both looked so happy and in love.
she is very pretty and he is easy on the eyes,
but this toxic relationship they’re in…
i hate to see it.
low-key: i honestly think if they broke up,
they would be so lost without each other.