i applaud people who are brave enough to share their stories of abuse,
by putting their wounds online.
it can be the ugly side we don’t want to know or care to admit happens.
it’s humbling and pumps the brakes on comparison.
ever so often,
we may feel jealousy or envy towards the beautiful ones:

…but we don’t know the hell they are going through once the camera is off.
many of them are victims OR abusers.
it’s just a matter of when will we find out who does what.

a Foxholer sent me an IG post from jordano garcia:

he posted his pictures of his alleged abuse and it’s a trigger warning…

That Scream mask might be a foreshadow.

so i wanted to font heavy about someone named israel.
israel checks all boxes of attentionisto:

...but unfortunately,
like most pineapples on rihanna’s internet,
he can’t just look good and show off that big juicy penis.
they gotta ruin it somehow and some way.
israel’s ex,
lightskin goddess,
had a lot of font and show about her alleged time with him.
brace yourself…

there is nothing worse than a dick sucka.
i’m fonting about the types that even someone claims they were a victim,
the dick sucka will get on their knees to show support to the monster.
its like the folks who disrespected r. kelly’s victims because they fucked to his music.
we wonder why people don’t speak up.
the following video of diddy abusing cassie triggered me heavy.
trigger warning ahead…

fonting of oversharing,
the following just flew down my twitter tl and had me baffled.
this is the type of shit the regulars are posting on social media nowadays.

An up close and personal look into their toxic ass relationships.

i think some vixens think they can put their paws on menz and they’ll be no reaction.
they are safe because they will be seen as vixens first and abusers last.
elisa jordana,
who use to work for howard stern and looks fuckin’ insane,
decided to record herself abusing some male in her car.
i think he was fed TF up that day…

one of my biggest fears use to be getting abused.
i knew i wasn’t strong and would probably go back if i really loved him.
thank God i got my tail in therapy to work those kinks out.

Abuse isn’t just physical.
Verbal,
mental,
and emotional black eyes hurt just as worse.

i am very sensitive to seeing  abuse.
there was a scene in the players club as a kid that traumatized me.
it was a vixen getting raped and beat up but behind a door.
( x it was this scene here )
i never watched this movie again off this scene alone.
a foxholer sent me the IG of aaron drew tonight.
aaron documented his abuse and this is very trigger warning ahead…

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so i’ve learned to heal from many years of abuse,
more-so mental and emotional,
i also learned something as well.
one of the many things ive noticed with abuse is…

Continue reading “you need the abuse to prove they love you” →