dating in this life isn’t easy.
it’s the one process that i always hated doing.
i know that if i want companionship or dick,
it has to be done.
it’s been so much games tho,
i stopped doing it.
you think you meet someone amazing and…
i was doing my regular twitter scroll and came across this.
it made me feel triggered af…
“IS THAT WHAT YOUR MOTHER TAUGHT YOU TO DO?”
*nicki minaj voice*
Would it have really killed that asshole to have lunch?
it’s one thing to tell someone you weren’t interested…
But to point out someone’s flaws?
i thought that was really disgusting,
but it’s the story for many of us in this life.
being ghosted horribly is what started this website,
it was with a wolf i met off a4a back in the day.
he wasn’t anything special,
but i was high-key attracted to him.
we were talking for a little minute.
after a proper screening,
i invited him over to my crib to mayyyybbbeeeee have him smash.
he wanted me to come downstairs first.
i got in his car,
he looked me up and down,
made up some excuse that said he had to go,
and i ain’t heard from him since.
that was in 2009.
thanks to his foolishness,
i ended up making a success website that i can font about shit like this.
what baffles me is…
Our looks are so tied into “who we are” in this life,
we can’t even make solid friendships
there are males who are attracted to me that i’m not attracted to,
but i won’t deny a friendship with them.
the way how i see life…
His friend/cousin/co worker/whoever might be your future husband.
nah nah nah…
these assholes never think that far into the future tho.
folks could stand to be a little kinder.
i’m sending nothing but good vibes to the victim in that tweet.
no one deserves to be treated like that.
lowkey: jackal better he glad his whole shit didn’t get exposed.
i’m sure black twitter would have found things he needed to work on.