so viola davis is the latest in “let’s drag her outta here” (smh)

i absolutely love this picture of viola.
so viola davis is one of my favorite black actresses,
but as of late,
she has been getting dragged for something she said.
i know.
viola davis of all people getting dragged.
so she stars in a new movie i’m excited to see called “widows”.
she spoke about being in an interracial relationship within the film.
her love interest is liam neeson.
this what she had to say about it via “bbc america”

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Caught Up In “Fences”

if you aren’t careful,
you will repeat the cycle.
some of us are repeating a cycle.
we are hurting others because we are hurt.
been hurt.
we expect everyone to do what we would do.
i can admit that i’ve have done it with my friends at one point.
that is not how life works.
we are all free to make mistakes and grow.
what may work for you may not work for them.
i learned that tonight watching “fences”

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It’s Sexy To Be A Hole Banging, Emotionally Pit less, Money Loving Volcano

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i have always been an open book when it came to my emotions.
i know it’s not the “manly” thing to do,
but i’d rather others know what’s bothering me than bottling it up.
with that being said,
i often asked myself:

Are males supposed to be emotional?

it’s like we’re supposed to lie in order to be considered a “man”.
the almighty male!
the one who bangs a lot of holes and wears designer clothes!
hear us roar!
rarrrrrrrrrr!
well that won’t be me.
judging from how the foxhole has been my “emotional journey” since ’09,
i guess many relate in some way or another.
thank you to those who continue not to judge me since then.
i saw a quote from viola davis the other day that represents me.
as you know,
viola is one of my favorite actresses.
this is a quick quote on what she told essence via the root
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