the pretty vixen finally watched “sex and the city” during the pandemic last year.
she never watched the show before.
i told her one of my favorite characters was samantha because of her fearless approach to sex.
she said:

“Samantha comes off like she was a victim of sexual abuse when she was younger.
All that sleeping around is not cute.
Imagine if she was a real person doing all of that.”

i still can’t unthink it.
we always talk about sex but we never talk about sex abuse.
we often focus on the female pov of sexual abuse and assault,
but many males have experienced their fair share of it when we were younger.
due to being violated at such vulnerable ages,
we lock away our inner children at that moment they were abused.
when we tried to our parents they laughed it off or intimidated us.
we often suffer in silence and destroy others along the way.
sometimes homophobia and self-hatred come from someplace deeper.
hell…

We gotta wonder if all these self-proclaimed male whores are coming from a place of being victims.

some of these onlyfans stars seem to have been victims disguised as sex-positive.
fitness icon,
shaun t,
shared another part of his truth in a recent ig video called “dig deeper“…

Continue reading “shaun t digs deeper” →

so what is the truth with this onlyfans situation?
we got sex workers panicking out here.
if they aren’t highkey vex,
they’re trying to build websites just so they continue to do their thing.
tyga erased his onlyfans is ( x starting his own website ).
lucky rashad is on the same wave too:

i’m shocked “justforfans” isn’t trying to swoop in for the kill.
is there misinformation happening tho?
is onlyfans really banning sexual content at the beginning of october?
a foxholer sent me this…

Continue reading “so onlyfans isn’t, kinda, sorta, not really, maybe/maybe not, banning sex work?” →

when social media gets on a wave,
boy,
do we get on that wave.
we will surf that muthafucka until we wipe clean out.
as of late,
i’ve been thinking of social media’s obsession with canceling others.
some days,
i can’t keep up with everyone who gets canceled.
don’t get me wrong,
some deserve their cancelations.
others,
however,
merely riled up a group of “sjws”.
social justice warriors for those who don’t know.
it reminds me that we truly never left high school.

You weren’t part of the popular crowd if you didn’t fit in/follow the crowd

this leads me to dangers of the “#metoo/times up” movement…

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i’d be so embarrassed to be cheesing up in pictures with him.
she is better than me.
the reason i say this is because tyrese decided to come clean.
everything he told us,
while allegedly medicated,
was all lies.
his wife’s pregnancy and how he had no money.
he threw in an apology to some folks for good measure.
this is what “the jasmine brand” got for foxhole review…
Continue reading “Tyrese Comes Clean (and Not In The Way You’d Like)” →

i’ve never been a fan of lil duval.
his spirit never came off legit.
something about him just never connected with me.
so i’m not shocked with his comments.
my thing is…
Continue reading “The “Truth” About Lil Duval” →

so aaron hernandez may have shared his “truth” already.
to who?
his mama and his brother,
jonathan hernandez.
a f-bi sent me a statement jonathan released via the providence journal…
Continue reading “Aaron Hernandez Already Told His “Truth” To His Family” →