we all have insecurities,
especially when it comes to dating.
with all the good there might be a shit ton of bad.
i see some relationships i know and i’m like:

Why is this even a thing?

it’s funny how i use to desire to be in a relationship so bad,
but i’ve realized it stemmed from my insecurities.
some males can flawlessly pull the insecurities out of you.
i had jd aka @danotorious1jd,
one of my amazing foxholers,
come on the podcast to have a conversation with us…

Continue reading ““do these dating insecurities make me look fat?” feat. @danotorious1jd” →

i’ve known my bff,
pose,
since 2002.
we actually met through someone else and became tight.
i watched pose go from working at the “toys r us” in times square to a multifaceted business vixen.
i’m so proud of her and it was a no brainer she would make an appearance on my podcast.
 last weekend,
she was joined with her other half,
“rich auntie” from their own podcast,
“non-corporate girls“.
we had a discussion about working a 9 to 5,
juggling a 5 to 9,
and everything in-between…

Continue reading “9 to 5, the 5 to 9, and everything in between feat. non-corporate girls” →

i thought tyler lepley was one of the sexiest wolves on “have and have nots“.
when that show first started,
he was one of the many reasons tuned in to watch his character “benny”.
as his career grew,
he turned into a real snack over the years:

 

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i remember writing something about him in the past and he ended up blocking me.
the article was about was seeing someone who looked like him on the train one day.
won’t lie to you,
it hurt,
but i moved tf on and found many other wolves to lust after.
i heard through the foxhole that he wasn’t comfortable with male attention.
he allegedly blocked many other males from supporting him.
so when he had this interview on the podcast “lip service” via “rolling out“…

Continue reading “tyler lepley ain’t gay and neither is tyler perry” →

the holidays are a tough time for many of us.
this year,
during the wonderful world of the rona,
it took seasonal depression into overdrive.
confession:

I’m going through one of the worst seasonal depressions ever.

i’ve literally been dragging my paws on many things.
ask me when i’m watching “the undoing” rather than sleeping in?

when i started the podcast,
i always wanted to make sure we could have good fox talk about issues like this.
well…

I had my first foxholer on the podcast as a guest last week!

blue,
who has been following me since ’09,
was the first to grace the foxhole podcast about this rona-rific holiday season…

Continue reading “one of the foxholers took my virginity last week” →

disconnected.
it has been a thought that has been going through my mind recently.
it actually started when we talked about teyana taylor.
on this week’s podcast,
and that last entry,
we came to the conclusion there is a disconnect with teyana and her music.
the thought about being disconnected from self came in the form of a question…

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ever since my cousin hybrid joined the podcast,
it has been jokes and great conversation.
this week’s discussion was so on point,
one of my close friends testified and got emotional over it.
we tackled “needs vs wants“.
( x listen on your favorite podcast player here )
well this week,
 i have a request for a topic and need a potential guest(s)…

Continue reading “guest needed for upcoming podcast discussion!” →