Words can be powerful,
almost like spells,
and they hold weight in tragic moments like the following.
kelly rowland has a song called “stole“ that really resonates right now:
“His life was stole and we’ll never knowwww…”
that’s exactly how i felt upon hearing the heartbreaking news about saiveon hopkins,
known to many as jay hefner on only fans…
Jay was a hero while visiting in Nebraska,
sacrificing himself to protect his cousin,
a true testament to his character.
when a Foxholer reached out to share the news,
it felt like a gut punch.
there was so much more to him than that tho.
i knew him as one of the finest and most amazing performers on OF.
he put his all into his scenes and i lusted him for it.
what i didn’t know was this:
He had just completed his degree in dentistry,
also showcasing his dedication and ambition.
and as if that wasn’t enough,
he was a devoted father to a ten-month-old and was caring for his terminally ill mother.
it’s heart-wrenching to think about the lives he touched and the future he’ll never have.
we’ve lost someone truly special,
and it’s a stark reminder of how fragile life can be.
to think…
He planned to celebrate a birthday in another country from Canada,
enjoy himself for the weekend,
and return home to continue creating life.
it’s crazy how life had other plans that he could not foresee,
and unfortunately,
no one could stop it.
We mourn the loss of Jay Hefner and The Foxhole is sending our deepest condolences to his loved ones during this unimaginable time.
read more about his death: here
Absolutely offering condolences to the family, that’s pretty much all you can do besides donating to the GoFundMe that his family has set up to pay for funeral expenses. I think they had a goal of $25,000 and they reached that very quickly which is a testament to how many people rocked with him, it was even somewhat touching to see some of the companies that he worked for donating as well.
On a side note, I have a question for Jamari and the entire foxhole as it relates to this. Now we all know that Saiveon Hopkins aka Jay Hefner was a very popular up-and-coming pornstar, and we all know that porn in particular is a tool that helps you masturbate. My question is now that Jay Hefner is dead, what is the proper etiquette when it comes to his porn, are you supposed to keep it and continue to use it or are you supposed to delete it out of respect for the dead, even if you paid for it?
^this is an EXCELLENT question and one that deserves an entry.
Thank you, I appreciate that.
24 years old is too goddamn young for anybody. People’s egos are so fragile they just can’t take a loss. I hate the senselessness of this shit smh
Such sad news about such a handsome, young brotha who was working his way up.
I was shocked when I heard about this!