besides star fox,
i had another friend that i thought would have been in my life for a long time.
we ended up breaking up after not being compatible as the years went on.
mutual friends noticed they spoke down to me when we were together.
i noticed it as well,
but i wanted to keep trying to make the friendship work.
i’m sure i wasn’t perfect on my end,
but what friendship truly is?
many years after our end,
we ended up speaking on the phone,
but the spark was gone since we both grew in separate directions.
Friendship break ups are just as tough as breaking up with your man/woman
that seems to be this season’s theme on “insecure” between molly and issa.
last night’s episode,
had a scene that posed an amazing question from twitter.
i wanted to ask the foxhole about the scenario (light spoilers)…
issa saw molly sitting in the ethiopian food spot and took tf off.
molly saw issa get out her car and was acting like she didn’t see her,
but peeped when issa dipped like “the flash” back to her car.
the tweet posed the question:
honestly if i was molly,
even though i’ve done this as an “issa”,
my natural emotion would have been:
VEX AF TO A “LITE” DEPRESSED AF
“lite depressed af” because i’m in this situation with a friend.
as a cancer,
i hold my friendships near and dear.
others males come and go.
we have done it to males we stopped speaking to when we saw them in public.
i think when it comes to a friendship we subconsciously hold them higher than relationships,
so we hope that “this too shall pass” when it comes to friendship.
when games are being played,
it can be a real blow to your ego and self esteem.
if my friend would have walked in,
saw me at the counter,
and proceeded to act like they didn’t know me,
i think that would have caused the same level of hurt as well.
shit like that is such bad communication that it leads to:
“Well fuck you too.”
…which can end up being a real beef.
so i’ll ask the foxhole…