Fallin’ Out (Again)

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so we’re here again.
not speaking.
suprise fuckin’ surprise.
another pointless fall out between us.
what is this?
like the seventh?
eighth?
i lost count.
of course,
this isn’t my fault.
well a little of it is.
i can be a grown up and admit,
but it’s definitely not that serious for…

cold shoulder
ice stare
below freezing attitude

it’s getting a little redundant,
don’t you think?
well you know what i think?

 this is the perfect time for a break.
a much needed one.
even though i feel like i want to squash the beef,
it maybe best i just let it the fuck go.
i might just blow the fuck up.
you know i know how much you love that.

anigif_enhanced-buzz-19793-1432392592-12so consider this my acceptance to separate for a while.
for two animals who are not suppose to a couple,
we sure do act like one.
when it’s good,
it’s great.
when it’s bad,
it’s a steaming pile of dog shit.

When we are going to get this right?

….or will we ever?
i don’t know…

we have fallen out many times before,
but this one feels different.
this might be the end.

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i don’t know how to respond to that.
i actually don’t know if you’ll be back.

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Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

19 thoughts on “Fallin’ Out (Again)

      1. What you can do is something similar to what I did when I had a falling out with a “friend” some time ago. After constantly going back and forth over stupid shyt, mainly because he was they type that needed to be the center of attention and hated to hear others get complimented in his presence, I told him that we needed to take a break because I could not continue with the way things were going. I told him point blank, when you are ready to have someone in your life that cares for and loves you unconditionally, I will be here for you. Never saw him again after that.

        1. ^i think no response from ww was the response.
          i’m a little sad about this,
          but i’m not as shook up.
          none of this is my fault sooooooo….
          if it ends,
          it ended on his own.
          he’ll have to live with that.

      2. No you’re not stupid. I relate to your situation more than I could explain here. Because of the losses in your life, it seems like you have troubling letting go. Even if you know something is not good for you. I understand that because I’ve been there before. I’m a work in progress when it comes to that. It takes a conscious effort.

    1. ^I agree. This one craves the attention but on THEIR terms, and that’s not healthy. Someone isn’t capable of carrying a sustaining and healthy relationship. Said it before and I’ll say it again…there are underlying issues.

      https://youtu.be/fDMTTy3gPOE

      1. ^and that’s the shit that makes me hot.
        now i see why these vixens go in and out his life.
        he tries to control all of us.
        there is definitely something more to him.
        we cool and all,
        but its like he a damn child.
        ugh.

    1. ^lol @ couple’s counseling.

      we had a beef and he took it personally.
      some shit he did and he blamed me for.
      nah homie.
      i had to cut into his ass.
      so he is all in his feelings.
      i sent him a text to move past and got no response LOL
      he ignored my ass all day.
      i refuse to send him a text or call since this is actually his fault.
      he likes to do dumb shit and not see how good and loyal i’ve been to him.
      smh.

      1. Smh it seems like he’s immature when it comes to these kinds of things. You fight you make up over and over with him to the point it’s driving you crazy. I never had this problems with my wolf “friend” but the same issue of my feelings for him would come up thus us trying to go on breaks with out any of them being successful.

        I know what you’re feel because theres a part of me that wants to cast him away and be done with the whole mess, but then I think on the good times we spent together, how we make each other laugh and are going out to try new places together. I realize I don’t have anyone in my life I can do that with in that way , he’s talking the role of a boyfriend with everything but the sex. I don’t want to give that up and have to go back to what I had before he came in my life. Sigh being a fox can suck I feel like WW knows he should make up with you by is HARD HEADED AS FUCK

  1. Jamari your not stupid at all your just in love with work wolf. I’m not there so I can’t see the interaction between you two, I’m just going by the post you write about work wolf. You have to have a heart to heart with him, and tell him exactly how you feel about him if you don’t feel comfortable about confessing your feelings to him, let this situation go. I agree with Irish it’s not healthy, sorry buddy.

  2. I completely understand Jamari. I have my school wolf and he disappears on the weekend (prolly fucking some vixen) but outside of that we talk and text everyday. He is someone that I have prayed for but I don’t know if I compete with Atlanta or the LSLH.

  3. Excuse my opinion but, all this emotional distress, ups and downs and you not even at the lease getting any dick out the deal? I feel bad for you every time you write about him. You seem just as emotionally damaged as this trade you have attached yourself to. Honestly this co-dependent relationship has to come to an end at some point. Again, I also feel your preference for certain types of guys that wont allow you to let go. If he was average looking you would have put on your big girl panties a long time ago. Its time to wake up boo ..

    1. Hallelujah, praise Jesus and pass the wine! CAZ is right. You really want a relationship with this fool? Is your self esteem so low you can’t search for someone better. The man for you is out there while you wasting time on this nut case, egotistical prick. And I bet his sex ain’t all that great. Guys who run from girl to girl usually don’t.

  4. Damn brah. Why don’t y’all just sit down and have an open talk about what y’all do to get on each other’s nerves? But listen and be open without all the cold shoulders and that other bs.

    After it’s been established what irks y’all, when one of you do it, NICELY call the other out on it. Accept it, and keep it move.

    Or make him dick you down, I don’t know.

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