Hey Jamari…I hope all is well. I haven’t “checked in” in some time now. I am still a loyal reader. Keep up the good work as always . So I wanted your views on something : Are platonic relationships in this lifestyle a thing of the past? I am a discreet bi wolf. I have the hardest time having/keeping LGBT friends. When they find out about me they want that FWB situation. They give that “I always had a crush on you” speech or switch up. I only share with them in hopes of our friendship growing stronger. It never works out. I strive for the bond you have with starfox (bonds are forever). I lost a childhood friend through something petty. No real reason. You know one of those “I’m making this a big deal but it’s really something else” situations. I felt it was truly due to the fact I was not into him that way. Upon telling him I was bi he switched up. He started acting more like we were dating. My then childhood friend once said to me “you’re a guys “guy” like the one everyone would want”. I did not know how to take that. I still don’t know. After him it all was the same if I shared. Only decent lgbt “friends” I’ve had are dudes I once messed with. But that never last for obvious reasons. I feel like their advice is always bias because of the past we shared. But back to the question : Are platonic relationships in this lifestyle a thing of the past? Or is it just me? Thanks in advance.
glad to see a familiar font.
i hope all is well,
besides this issue,
and continues to be!
lets get into the foxmail…
is it wrong to say,
but when i look at certain instagrams,
ones where i can tell it’s one of “us”,
and there are a group of friends that i ask myself:
Who have they fucked?
…especially if its a masculine attentionisto.
hell even the so called “straight” ones.
i know it’s not the best thing to think,
but the thought does cross my mind.
so star fox and i met at church.
he said he would see me and say to himself:
“i’m going to be his friend”
he also said i stood out and my spirit attracted him to me.
we had a genuine platonic friendship after we got to know each other.
i think it was the clothes addiction we also shared.
we were two foxes who lusted after the same type of wolf.
we both had great taste and would share stories.
we also fought a few times,
but it didn’t take us long to make up.
there was times i would cuss him out for dumb decisions,
and there was times he would do it to me.
it was all love.
i think i mentioned something about my pipe size one time to him.
he said something fresh to me and i responded with:
…and that’s as far as it went.
we slept in the same bed and it was nothing.
we had a karmic bond and i miss him.
it can be hard to be friends with someone of the same sex,
especially when you both like the same sex.
like it’s hard for a straight wolf and a vixen to be “genuine friends”.
he is never just “my brother”.
he is waiting for the perfect time to infiltrate her pussy.
she is not just a “sister” either.
that pipe is on her mind and she is just waiting for the right moment.
hell there are some vixens who “want you”,
but know you not checkin’ for them.
if you are masculine,
or have some kind of sex appeal,
it will be difficul to meet genuine friends in this life.
either they want to fuck you or they will hate on you.
being friends with your ex only brings about feelings that didn’t get closure.
you seem to be meeting animals who already wanted to fuck you.
the more you share,
the more open they get.
when you tell them you are “bi”,
plus you are the ideal wolf,
it just makes them all hot ‘n’ horny.
in order to meet platonic friends,
you BOTH have to genuinely not look at each other like that.
those type of friendships just happen out of luck.
it can also take years to build a foundation star fox and i had.
star fox and i were goofy as hell and could stay on the phone for hours.
we would talk about the future,
wolves we liked,
prayed with each other,
and be shoulders when needed.
i don’t think i will meet someone like him again,
but i try to stay optimistic that it could happen.
i hope it happens for you foxholer.
simply continue to be you and curve those who want to take it further.
i hope this helped!
keep me posted!