cardi b tweet last week made me have to vent today

Can i vent about something real quick?
It’s been sitting on my spirit since last week.

so i went to the store last week since i was running low on food.
i picked up a few things that i needed and it was about 10 or so items.
i didn’t want to spend too much money so i went for essentials.
it was enough for me to go to the 12 items of less lane.
so i get there,
they rang up all my shit and foxhole…

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he was interesting but his social media made you lose interest? (no sexy sh*t could save him)

question

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gay males lie just as good as straight males

i said this year i was gonna do more reading.
i want to read more stories,
especially scary shit.
i think i’m pretty done with self-help books tbh.
i posted ^that picture during my IG stories a few weeks ago and…

“You have to read that book!
I read it during the pandemic and it changed my life!” – A Foxholer.

heard.
the book is called “all about love (new visions)” by bell hooks.
after a 2 week hold at the digital library,
i finally got it.
as i was reading the chapter on why men lie,
and how it usually started with many of our childhoods,
i thought of something that i wanted to run by the foxhole.
so read me out…

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i learned a few things with this whole megan thee stallion hate train

i’m not even gonna hold you but…

I learned a lot about some of the black community regarding Megan Thee Stallion and Tory Lanez

i learned that #protectblackwomen is a joke.
i learned that i don’t think people liked megan.
i learned that people thought tory was bigger than he is.
i learned that straight toxic black males are protected with excuses.
i learned black gays,
black trans,
black vixens,
and black kids don’t have the same protection.
it’s a sad state of affairs tbh.
the manosphere of incels has infiltrated the black straight community.
if the straight black male is getting a ton of pussy,
or even in a relationship,
he has a deep-rooted hatred for black vixens.
even with these pictures of the crime scene…

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how i welcomed in 2023

i didn’t clean.
i didn’t wash my clothes.
i didn’t do any spells or eat chicken instead of pork.
my apartment is tidy and all i did was take out the trash.
i caught up with friends,
took an edible,
and fell asleep a few hours before the ball dropped.
thats right…

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“that thing”

meghan markle said in the netflix documentary that she wasn’t looking.
she genuinely wasn’t looking to be in a relationship.
she was on a girl’s trip having fun and documenting it on her socials.
harry saw her and saw “that thing” that was attractive.

i have friends who told me they met their “ones” that way too.
they didn’t have to chase or coerce.
they let “that thing” take over and they were happy being single.
they randomly met these folks while living life and having fun.

the foxhole knows how desperate i was to find a wolf.
whether it was baller wolf or regula degulas.
people pleaser and “love me please!” was the energy i was giving out.
i was repelling or clinging to males that were awful.
after much crying,
hurting,
and ultimately healing

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