the following entry is a trigger warning.
so we gotta learn when to walk away when we see the first red flag.
in the beginning,
are not to be ignored because they often set the foundation.
i saw a video from twitter that i had to share with the foxhole rather than a retweet.
it was a jackal using a belt to get a vixen in line…
This was before it started: pic.twitter.com/yo3X9ojILC
— DEPOSIT REQUIRED to book ‼️ (@InevitableXXX) September 16, 2021
Men like this all need to drop dead expeditiously . pic.twitter.com/mGS8KGPKCB
— DEPOSIT REQUIRED to book ‼️ (@InevitableXXX) September 14, 2021
that reminded me of my grandmother in barbados.
i think many of us know “the belt” all too well.
the fact that she didn’t scream out is telling.
it tells me she is used to this kind of treatment.
i’ve seen gay males who are abused get it ten times as worse.
relationships can be so hard to come by that some gay males settle for anything.
what abuse victims in these relationships don’t tell you is:
The make-up sex is just as violent too.
The abuser does it to prove a point.
It’s rougher and harder.
The choking and the ass slapping.
It’s aggressive and primal.
That dopamine hits even harder and the addiction seeds deeper.
i don’t like seeing people getting abused and looking helpless like that.
Can we fall into a physically abusive relationship on accident?
you know the types who claim they’ll never let someone hit them,
but somehow they end up being in one.
this video has me thinking about all kinds of shit now.
lowkey: this is why i urge anyone who has low self-esteem to seek therapy.
do not jump into a relationship because we often jump into the wrong ones.
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