the Foxhole is known for fonting about sexy males,
sex,
and piping hot tea on occasion.
we have a good time in this neck of the woods.

My bread and butter has always been sharing my struggles and trauma.

that is usually what i get messages about.
i’ve gotten messages from Foxholers in countries where they can’t be themselves.
those folks have lived vicariously and found their healing through my words.
so it’s not a shocker when i strip naked with you.

Last night in therapy,
we had to do an exercise about forgiveness.
It is on the road map to healing.

i wrote my limiting beliefs that i wanted to share.
it’s something i was gonna keep private but i wanted The Foxhole to see it.
it could help someone else…

• Men don’t like me because I’m not masculine like the other boys
  
• I’m ostracized because I think I’m the problem
  
• I always attract curious DL men that play games and discard me
  
• Men always hurt me and treat me like trash while loving the worst kinds of people
  
• Money is hard to get when you don’t have certain things or skills to get it
  
• I’m stupid and not smart like other people
  
• People don’t support me
  
• People hurt me and then leave my life
  
• The people who hurt me laugh and see me as a joke
  
• I wasn’t raised right
  
• I’m scared
  
• I am being ignored because it’s something I did
  
• I’ll never be like everyone else
  
• I not like everyone else
  
• People don’t like me because I’m gay
  
• People are judging me because I’m gay and this is why I’m the problem
  
• I’m not accepted
  
• I’m unlovable
  
• I’m not enough even though I try to be

the goal is to take all of those things and find the source of where they were born from.
once i find the source,
i have to rewrite the statements of how those things aren’t true.

It’s correcting the limiting beliefs so I can release them.

thank you for allowing me to let my fur down.
i hope this can help someone out there finally be free too.

lowkey: i may share the rewrite.
lemme think about it.