To be “omg he is FINE” comes with it’s price.
I am sure to look like him above must have it’s perks.
You have the ability to make any Vixen wet and give every Wolf/Fox a boner.
You can also get discounts on free food and land great jobs,
but the problem is everyone is trying to get a piece.
You do not know who is real… or who is plotting to fuck you.
And when you aren’t attracted to the person, it can also create stalkers.
As great as all that may sound, it can be a tad annoying and downright scary.
I have an associate who finally met the Wolf of his dreams…
He has been in the dating doldrums for a number of years.
He decided to go to a friend’s party a couple of months back and saw the finest Wolf he ever laid eyes on.
He didn’t know his friend had friends who kept good-looking friends.
(note to self: always attend parties thrown by friends)
Intimidated by the Wolf and his attractiveness, he just kept it to strictly eye fucking.
Well, the feelings were mutual on Wolf’s end and they got introduced.
The Wolf is pretty much sprung over him and is pretty much well-trained and behaving himself…
…but my Fox associate’s problem is that he is intimidated by the Wolf’s looks.
“Look at me and look at him!
Why does he even want me?
He could have any Fox in the world but he wants me.
He tells me that so many people try to throw themselves at him.
I guess it is comforting to know he doesn’t want them and that he wants me.
I don’t act too insecure around him, but I always feel he will leave me for someone else.
I do not want to feel like this.” – he said to me the other night on the phone.
Now why would he go self affirm that?
He isn’t a bad-looking guy himself but right now, he is in a dating daze.
Dating a fine Wolf and can’t control his inner turmoil.
It made me think of myself and the men I am personally attracted too.
Devin Thomas, Nic Harris, Dez Bryant, Alonzo Gee… and the list goes on and on.
But as much shit a I talk, could I handle it really?
In my mind, I pretty much feel like I would have them being good Wolves at my beck and call.
I would give them the same 50/5o treatment as I would expect.
You treat me good and I treat you better.
That is where fantasy can be just that.
When you decided to date a Wolf (or even a Fox like that), it is not easy for the insecure.
You could ruin a great relationship all because you could not keep your issues in check.
It takes a certain level of confidence, charisma, and charm.
A bunch of traits a lot of people do not have that.
That is why I ask….