“I just fade into the abyss with people.”

that was the pretty vixen telling me how she doesn’t do confrontation.
personally,
i like to pull folks to the side so we can be on the same page.
for my mental health,
i always like to squash issues so i don’t take any ghosts with me.
i know that isn’t always possible but if i have to move on,
at least we had a conversation before we got to that point.
i had to wonder tho…

Is confrontation always a good thing?

today,
i sent three texts to three people in my life…
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the dynamics between males and female sexuality is interesting to me.
it almost comes off like one big ass contradiction as well.
i was reading the “people” article in regards to niecy nash and her marriage to jessica betts.
in regards to it being a “coming out“,
she said…
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i could get with ^this last year.
idris elba was 2018 “sexiest man alive” for people magazine.
i couldddddddd get with that.

he is the fantasy in my head that keeps on giving.
well i think the wolves voted for 2019 “sexiest man alive” because…

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we have to learn about other people eventually.
it’s a tough lesson,
but it’s one that will harden us for the future.
the lesson?

EVERYONE DOESN’T HAVE YOUR BACK

tiffany haddish seems to have learned that lesson recently.
this is what she put on her twitter…

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well it’s about time.
whenever they pick people’s “sexiest man alive”,
i usually cringe.
“the rock” was the only one i said “yum”.
last year,
it was blake shelton of all folks.
confused tf outta me,
but i figured he must be sexy to someone.
well they revealed 2018 sexiest wolf and i have to agree with their decision.
i’ve been a fan for a long time and well…

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something told me to font the following.
it could be for one foxholer or maybe 20.
i don’t know who needs it,
but i had to learn it for my own life as well…

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