i always said marriage is a business.
when you marry for love,
thats when it all goes down the drain.

When you get married,
you have to sign a contract.
When you divorce,
you gotta start splitting up assets and other fees (child support, alimony).

so you think you met the one,
ya’ll gonna live happily ever after,
and as soon as shit hits the fan…

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foxhole:

Do you know how many black (gay and straight) were following David Geffen on IG?

randomly,
i went to his ig and saw many of our favs following him.
you know my eyebrow went up.
they were trying to get that billionaire peen.
i would be too shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii…
according to the forests,
david ended up choosing one and they got married over the weekend…

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speaking of past alleged victims of malik joseph,
it seems like love is in the air for the black gays.
tis be the season?
porn hybrid,
knockout,
seemed to have found the one.
so much so…

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i don’t know why males get married in their 20s.
i don’t know why baller wolves even lie to themselves getting married.
if you are cute and come into a lot of money,
the hoes will be out like vultures trying to get penis and a paycheck.
they want to get pregnant so they don’t have to work again.
tim anderson,
who plays for the chicago white sox…

…is married to bria anderson since 2017 and has two kids with her.
allegedly,
it didn’t stop his sperm from infiltrating ari fletcher’s friend cause…

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back in the late 00s ish,
i saw bryan terrell clark’s pictures on myspace and fell in deep like.
he was an up-and-coming actor that i thought was so fine.
like many other actors,
rappers,
singers,
and influencers…

What I didn’t know was that he was part of the life.

in the early 20s,
bryan terrell clark married devario simmons on the first day of 222…

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in 2002-03ish,
after wandering in the city all day,
a friend “who i don’t know anymore” suggested we go to toys r us that was in time square.
she wanted to meet up with a girl who worked there that she met online.
i didn’t want the day to end so i was down.
when i first saw the girl we were meeting,
i said to myself:

“Wow,
she looks really stressed out and over it.
SEE this is why I don’t do retail.”

and

“I really dig this girl’s energy,
but we will probably never see each other again.”

The Universe made sure that wouldn’t happen.
a year or two later,
we reconnected on the blogging platform,
xanga.
she hopped in my comments and i did the same in hers.
we would write entries about our frustrations and loneliness.
the folks who broke our hearts; the ones who got away.
the main theme for us was trying to find that perfect love.
toys r us and that friend “who i don’t know anymore” both brought us stress,
and ironically don’t exist any longer either,
but they were the starting point in planting the seed for this friendship to grow.
when i look back at the first time we met until now,
i ask myself:

Who knew from that moment we met that our “us” would become this?

i get to write another story on my own platform about us.
last sunday in brooklyn,
she got married to your soulmate…

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