are we off the beaten path when they introduced “social media minstrel”?

some black jackals on elon social media baffle me.
they do things for clout that brings about the opposite effect.
there are just some things that will never come off well.
even if the intentions are for jokes,
the imagery doesn’t land well.
why did these black males wake up one day and think this was dope content?…

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boosie was deeply offended at the gay narratives in the color purple 2023

did The Foxhole go see The Color Purple 2023 yet?
will ya’ll be mad at me if I fonted that I haven’t?
that is the type of movie I’d see when it hits streaming.
unless I was going with my manz,
or even a group of friends,
that is the kind of movie i’d want to watch with cozy vibes.

with my manz.
i don’t remember there being gay stuff in the original movie.
according to boosie,
he straight up walked out of the gay narratives in this 2023 version…

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tell the big baby that it’s time to put it to bed

…because this ain’t it.
his IG is free and has much better content.
a Foxholer sent in a drop that had me confused.
i guess this is the big baby’s baby steps in what he thinks is the right direction.
I’ll start with the positives but then we will get into the negatives.
so I did like this part

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the type of sh*t that channels my rage and makes me wanna burn it all down

growing up in the hood as a kid,
i was scared to let anyone know i liked “white music“.

when i was found out,
i was laughed at and ended up giving away my cds.
it’s wild the things many of us go through to be accepted,
all while doing what we really love secretly.
i’m looking at you DL males.
lately,
i’ve been exploring into different genres of music.
i’m way past sticking to the same hiphop and r&b shit i done heard 1,000 times.
while going down the rabbit hole,
i ended up listening to a group i never thought i would be into.

Foxhole…

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your lack of self control is why you are out of control

control.
oftentimes,
we have a need and a desire to be in control of other people.
that can create a lot of resentment and a breeding ground for toxic situations.
when we are out of control,
that is when the real “us” comes flying out.

Insecure
Panic

Jealousy
Envy
Letting all kinds of disrespect slide
Being nasty and disrespectful to others

on the low,
my mother had showed me how she was self control in relationships.

she had a big learning lesson with her first husband but she learned quick.
when she entered relationships after that,
and it was revealed that many of them were actually jackals in disguises

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khi lavene and prince ant teach us to “let that negro go”

that picture above legit signifies their relationship when you get into this entry.
body language,
energy,
and “look beyond what we are trying to show everyone in pictures”.

there is nothing worse than holding onto someone who wants to leave.
on your end,
it temporarily satisfies the low sense of self worth of your stage 5 clinger.
on their end,
it is building up resentment and anger.
when everything cools down a bit,
they’ll take out that anger on you with lethal hate sex.

You’re confusing that hate sex for intense love and passion.
They’re rage fucking you because it’s releasing stress and punishing you.

they are only sticking around because of kids,
its cheaper to keep her/him“,
or it’s been an endless cycle for so long that he is comfortable.
i’ve learned in life:

When someone wants to leave,
you hold the door open for them to go.

If not,
it’ll be a whole relationship/friendship of rinse and repeat.

in the following video,
khi lavene wanted to leave a heated situation with his (x?) boyfriend,
prince ant.

well…

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