everyone in this life has different experiences.
some of us are out and dealt with every male under the sun.
others are dl and its mostly sexual.
then there is the in-between who are waiting for “mister right” instead of “right now”.
we have all met various males who will break their rules for us.

The “I will only let you TOP me”
The “I will only be on the BOTTOM for you”

i was having a chat with a foxholer about a certain type of male in the life tho.
the one who will only deal with one male and that’s YOU…

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maybe this is the representation we needed?
every time a black male comes out,
we get all excited,
and then he parades around his new white trophy.
check the archives.
it never fails.
they always claim they date black males,
but it always ends up being a lie.
well justice smith,
who was in “the get down”,
and micah aka nicholas ashe from queen sugar,
debuted their relationship with some words on his ig…
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oh fuck me,
^he’s a cancer (july 9th).
ugh.
i never understood why alleged dl jackals try so hard and wonder why they get outed.
if you enjoy hooking up with males on the low,
fine,
but don’t try to pass legislation to hurt the same gay males you seek out to fuck.
we’re looking at you lindsey graham,
the “soon to be/maybe outed” senator of south carolina.
a sex worker named sean harding posted this tweet…

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“Listen…
I mess with dudes,
but I’m not out there with it.
I’m not gonna hold you but I’m really attracted to you.
If you are cool with me not being out there,
we can mess around.
I’m not looking for anything serious right now.
If that isn’t what you’re looking for,
I understand and that’s cool too.”

….or something like that.
it’s perfect tho.
personally,
that is how you do shit if you’re on the low.
it saves hurt feelings and potential outing because you put it all on the table.
i think miscommunication is what causes hurt feelings tbh.
you want a relationship; they wants to fuck.
why are we not on the same page?
now don’t get me wrong….

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i lovvvved watching “mister rogers’ neighborhood” as a kid.
i was a big fan of that and sesame street.
believe it or not,
those shows had some good life lessons on them.
i never heard anything bad about the fred rogers,
the man who played the title character,
but this following story might not paint him in the best light with the gays.
officer clemmons,
played by francois clemmons,
was told not to come out the closet by mister rogers.
this is what i read today on “daily mail“…

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nba baller wolf,
nick young,
is cute.
i like his attentionisto rebellion at times.
i love folks who live by the beat of their own drum with all the drama and nonsense.
so the following happened and it has gone viral…

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