ya know,
when i posts males on this site,
i honestly don’t give a damn that they’re straight.
i’m not exactly posting them for their sexuality.
i post all kind of males because i’m attracted to the attractive.
instagram has become the new “playgirl” magazine.
free pictures and videos without a monthly surcharge.
straight or gay,
most of these males are just good enough to look at,
because let’s face it…
95% of them are probably horrible to date/marry/take seriously
sometimes even to fuck them can be a disappointment.
what confuses me tho is when i have posted gay males i enjoyed.
like i said in the last comment box,
i’ll get comments under those entries like…
“oh she is cunt.”
“wolf?
she takes dick.”
“she ain’t nobody masculine…”
…with a full degrading expose on why they are worthless scum.
it’s like a girl’s bathroom during fifth period.
simply because they’re attractive,
nice bawdies,
handsome faces,
but happen to be gay.
let’s not act like that doesn’t happen.
most of us do we tear down our own,
so we don’t even see them as attractive.
don’t even get me started on the fox shaming.
it’s like once it’s revealed that someone takes pipe in this life,
they’re seen as “less than”.
which is one of the main reasons i just post whoever now.
it’s like posting about attractive celeb males.
We may never fuck them,
but they’re nice to fantasize about
what i’ve realized is gay males are never gonna win.
we will never be good enough for each other.
i can post my picture tomorrow,
and you know and i know,
i will teared down for having flaws or being “unattractive” to someone.
i’ll be someone’s “cunt” in their rebuttals.
everything wrong with me physically will be used as ammunition.
so why even bother?
we all know folks are evil af out here.
they want to seek and destroy,
but complain they have no outlets for folks in the life.
so i don’t give a fuck.
i post what i want and what i like.
if you like it then great,
if not,
then i don’t know what to font ya.
listen…
straight males can be attractive and the fantasy too.
it’s not like gay males don’t use each other sexually either.
i literally see most males like this nowadays:
something tasty and visually fulfilling.
sidebar: that hamburger looks bomb tho.
some of us like to act like we are so above it all because we are gay,
but deep down inside,
most of us are pretty much the same.
we treat each other,
if not worst,
as some of these straights treat us.
we can be the enemies to each other.
some of us are just as disgusting as them.
please stop me if i’m lying.
so there is no end game or trophy because there is no win.
maybe,
i’ve gotten to the point that i don’t see “sexuality” anymore.
i just see individuals for who they are and i treat those accordingly.
no matter if you’re gay or straight,
my self interest in most of their pics is what erection they provoked.
that’s pretty much how gays do things anyway.
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I can only speak from personal experience but I am not sure how the word gay is being used here, is “gay used as Feminine as apposed to masculine? . I am a same gender loving man that Identifies as Gay. I don’t carry myself as an obvious identified gay man. I am attracted to same gender loving men who are not easily identified as Gay, it has nothing to do with what we do in bed.. I do not lust after “Straight Men” Nor “Straight acting men or Down Low men, too much trouble. I can appreciate a good looking fine man but that is all. Most of my close friends are straight men that are comfortable as they are and with me. I do not advertise the fact that I am Gay nor do I hide it if asked.
I have lived in Africa and The Middle East and Europe most of my adult life and never had to face these issues. When in Bed we do what pleases the other, after all we are two men in bed. But Alas I am from another time where these things were not as important as they seem to be today. I love gay men and by that I mean men who are secure in their Masculinity and Felinity as a Gay Person. It is not about top or bottom, it is just that I like Masculine men.
I firmly believe in “To each his on” Gay Life is not easy!
Great post Jamari, I absolutely loved reading this.
Honestly… I hate saying this but it’s the main reason why I don’t really hang around gay guys. Generally speaking they’re so catty, I’ve seen it first hand. I keep most at arms length and If I do have gay friends their individuals, not groups. I keep everyone at arms length in general but I’m speaking specifically for gay guys because they’re the topic at hand.
It’s like whenever you see somebody cute they always have to say something negative. It’s all races btw, not just black. I’ve seen threads on DataLounge where those useless white queens will made 100+ post threads dragging popular/famous white gays ALL the time. Saying how unattractive they are, bottom shaming, saying they have HIV etc. It’s disgusting.
Funny enough, the people who say these nasty things wouldn’t stand a chance with the person they’re defaming. They probably would sleep with them if they had the chance to as well, these homos just like being negative for no god damn reason.
I great post..
Wow Jamari this is a powerful entry, that I totally agree with
Aaron Ridge is 50 and fine af…lawd…a DILF!! 😍
aaron ridge is phyne is he into black men? i know he loves leather!
He has a scene with Nubius. It’s on Pornhub last time I remember. Aaron really is a DILF though.
The problem with gay men is that they base their way of thinking off heterosexual teachings.
Keep in mind that if a TOP has bottomed once in his life, gay men (BOTTOMS) will be weary of him because when a man says he’s a TOP there is a (mis)conception that he’s been slanging peen his whole life & nothing has came close to his buns except the toilet seat.
If a TOP ever told me he used to Bottom, I’d raise an eyebrow and work ways of seeing how far he’d let me go with playing with azz & stuff (if you haven’t figured it out by now, I should have became a scientist), just to see how he’d respond. I like to please my man in a variety of ways so it wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me like it would others…Now if he drops his drawls and I see a vagina….we might have some problems…& need to talk.
This is the same with most women though…who for all purposes, if they found out their boyfriend’s took a peen in the past, you can bet he’d be gay or she’d be like oh he DL…and don’t let her tell her sistas either. Gotta watch him close or possibly as a man on Jack’d…
If you hear any bottom utter such a thing you mentioned, it’s because, well a bottom likes to be pentrated, not do the penetrating and when this Disneyland Power Top Prince Charming appears and is wearing glass slippers along with his armor…the mirror has been broken. Ha..it’s like Hungry Hippos for one dick..(you ever played that game?)
“Scientific analysis” says that there are more men that identify as verse than the other two, Bottoms come in second and Tops last.
I think the backlash for the straight men stems from several different perspectives. “Straight men” are already systematically glorified over gay men by default because they are the “ideal” image of “masculinity” and the “ideal male” according to nature.and the fact that quite a few “look down” on the gays.
If you ever had a chance to observe straight individuals every time something “homosexual” appears in their line of vision there is an uproar (sometimes shady speech). There is also statements which lean towards their being a “gay agenda” even though 97% of television, movies and songs glorify heterosexual relationships.
When they do show them, they are often overtly feminine, working in a beauty shop, gossiping and purely comic relief (for their mockery..)
Personally, (& this is just me.) I have no “queer eye for the straight guy”. I can recognize a good looking one, just like I could a good looking female. But some of them can get real testy about gay men faunin over them and others have used this as a platform to fund their bank accounts. I think in your situation it really does depend on the person. Some gay men may not want their stuff posted either. I’m not sure if it’s because this blog is “infamous” (which I don’t understand) or what. I say post what you want. I’ll still be peppin it to see if it’s in my radar. Just make sure you grab the right wolf by the tail.
Since this is a public blog folks are going to vocalize. Some agree, others don’t and then others lurk, waiting on the right post to appear.
To me…and I’m being honest from my point of view, observing, the topics that be getting hits be anything to do with some tea getting dropped with sexual/gender orientation and the transgender is always a hot topic here. It kinda does show that we all have a lot to discuss as an LGBTQ (are those all the letters? 🤔) community.
^i loved this.
very intelligent and thought provoking.
it’s crazy,
bu growing up,
i didn’t want a wolf to have been penetrated at all.
nowadays,
i don’t care as long as i’m not expected to do it.
Stay positive, motivated and never let anyone clip your wings.
I agree with this entry 1000%…a sad truth. If a man says he’s a bttm or vers hes mocked, where tops are treated like royalty, especially if they’re redbone with tattoos lol
^the same straight males we are supposed to avoid are treated nice,
while a gay male can look the same,
and he is told that he isn’t masculine and takes pipe.
make it make sense.
Because most gay men participate in heteronormative behavior. Tops are treated like men and bottom are treated like women, bottoms are even competing against each other (for what I don’t know).