some black folks get very angry when they aren’t invited within white spaces
some black folks can’t function without being invited to white spaces.
we have our own spaces but when we see white folks doing them,
enjoying their spaces and there are no black people on site,
it’s all of this outrage on social media.
kristen bell had dinner for her closest celebrity friends.
some black folks were mad af at the picture posted…
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everyone said f*ck spill and is heading over to threads now?
sometimes,
i’m confused we the black community.
we scream we don’t have places for us.
a social media app called spill,
which is promoting black users exclusively,
comes out and it’s hot for a second but…
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this dating thing is a war zone and the battle isn’t who tops or bottoms
finding a partner feels like going to war these days.
i admire those who found one with no issues.
keeping them after you get them is a whole other issue.
having pretty muscles or a rotund tail means nada nowadays.
the “you need to be willing to top and bottom” means nothing either.
that is what we sell to people in hopes of being chosen.
it’s like a job interview and how we lie to get the job.
You gotta be fully prepared to do battle.
trying to find someone to love can be so demoralizing…
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how to bury a miscommunication
miscommunication.
when i sat and thought about it yesterday,
many of my failed relationships ended due to miscommunication.
i have met some idiots who had to go because they weren’t good for me.
like,
my sister for instance.
i have tried to communicate with her many times about our issues.
after the 10th issue with her doing the same shit,
i realized there is no fixing our relationship so i had to peace out.
How many of our family members or close friends have we stopped speaking to because something happened and no one decided to talk?
we lie and create excuses to justify not speaking to them.
the truth is it could have been resolved if both parties had a conversation.
so you know i had my psychotic meltdown the other day?
i haven’t been speaking to my family for the last 2 months and…
oh hi, i’m back from my psychotic meltdown
two things can be true at the same time.
i don’t think many of us realize this,
especially in the black community.
we expect everyone to be as pretty and perfect as what we see on instagram.
you can have a very pretty life and be very sad too.
hell…
There are people who post their pretty pictures but literally waiting to die.
can you handle their truth?
or do you want them to always be pretty?
to entertain you because you are dying inside too?
you don’t come to this foxhole because i post pretty pictures,
pretending to be better than you…
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