as a black gay content creator,
who has launched the Foxhole in 2009,
i learned the hard way how many straights can use you for their benefit.
i’ve seen other gays who do content or have pull get used as well.
if you have a “i want to be liked” spirit,
or “i want to fuck every attractive and sexy male” spirit,
you will always fall into their traps to your doom every time.
the hard reality is…

Some of these straights don’t like us.
They like the fact we are a key into putting them on.
Many of them hate that we are doing it better than them.

i’m not fonting that they aren’t gays who do this too.
being fake is not limited to sexuality.
they are some fake-ass user gays out here.
i knew one who used everyone and used his mouth and hole to “make it”.
he is currently used up and a nobody in 2024.
what i am fonting is my exposure that has been with many fake straights.
they never liked me after i shared the Foxhole with them because:

A) “Who tf is this gay bitch with alla this?“
B) “He doesn’t have the pull to use so fuck him.”

either way,
i didn’t lose anything when they dropped me.
i saw God continue to bless me while they’re still tap dancing to be put on.

whether its that popular vixen of the sexy pineapple with muscles,
you gotta know your worth and power.
this is beyond invites or trying to get fucked.
the truth is YOU are better than all of them and that makes you a target.

You gotta learn to play the game with some of these straights (or anyone).

that means:

You need to be getting paid or getting some kind of life upgrade.

don’t be shy to pull your metaphorical big dick out at the table either.
you can’t be doing free work for little to no return on your investment.
remember:

You are just as amazing and just as talented as them.
You have shrunk yourself and not taking up space because you should.

i’m learning to start taking up space too.
soooooooooooo they need to get in line or they can go.
if they do go then that is totally fine!
there is a blue check with clout coming to take their spot.

lowkey: be careful fuckin’ some of these “gay for pay” males too.
they don’t like you; they just like your money or status.
they can also spin it that you forced them into sex in exchange for ___.
always make sure you spin it that they offered it first.