it sunday so i’m assuming some of the foxhole are still sleep.
they went out to the club last night and deciding to sleep in.
some of you are up and eating breakfast.
making your rounds on your favorite websites.
well i’m glad you decided to join me this morning!
as the title states,
i conducted an interview about one of my favorite subjects.
it was pretty in depth in how some make their money.
and “look at my new shoes” don’t always cum from hard work.
well puttin’ in work…
oh and you may find yourself not breathing for a good 10 minutes.
i’m not responsible for any passing out or choking.
anyway check out my interview with “fuck attentionistos”…
(this is NSFW,
and “only for the curious straights”)
JF: thank you agreeing to this interview!
now before you start,
lets get into who are you for my foxhole?…
FA: I’m a ______________ in NYC and a connoisseur of all things seedy. I’m African-American, well adjusted, single, and serially horny.
JF: very nice. now why do you enjoy the company of high profile escorts?
FA: I actually don’t enjoy the company of high profile escorts, but rather I enjoy seeing if I can turn high profile guys out by waving money in their face. By high profile, I mean twitter-famous, facebook-famous, tumblr-famous, or Instagram-famous. I know that sounds crude, but I’ve never sought out any guy I knew was an escort in the traditional sense. I prefer to find guys via social media and proposition them. There’s a level of nuance there that most won’t get, but I think you get what I’m trying to say.
JF: i do. how do you make contact with these attentionistos?
(for those who don’t know “foxhole” talk: an “attentionisto/nista” is someone who craves attention on social media. they will do anything, everything, and anyone to get it.)
FA: Social media is how I engage with these guys. Most people, for whatever reason, have a way to contact them using an outside source like another social media account or an e-mail. I used to use KIK but that has been taken over by people who aren’t serious, so I stopped using KIK.
JF: do you feel the “personal training” is legit? or do you think its a cover?
FA: I think the personal trainer angle has been co-opted by the attentionistos. For example, there are a few guys who are looking for corporate sponsors for meal prep or bodybuilding comps. Those guys are legit. But the guys who claim to be into fitness as a career, but won’t tell you where they work out, don’t have any “real life, normal” clients, or won’t give tips about health and fitness are clearly using it to cover for their escorting ways.
JF: mmm I had a feeling. so how do you get attentionistos to reply to your inquiries?
FA: These guys are very secretive and selective, so I make it seem like I have something to lose, too. When I e-mail guys, I use an e-mail that’s not yahoo, gmail, ect. My e-mail adds a level of credibility to what I’m seeking. That usually seems to get the attention of these attentionistos.
JF: how do you get the attentionistos to trust you?
FA: I never ask for “personal” pics. I am tempted to, but I don’t. Now, if they want to send me pics, I’ll gladly take them, but I never make requests. Oddly enough, now that I think about it, none of the attentionistos have asked for my picture either. We’ve only talked about money, which I’m sure we’ll get to later. Not asking for anything early on is what helps build trust and allows them to know that I’m serious about making a tangible connection. Most people enter their DMs or e-mail them asking to swap pics. That gets old and makes them guarded.
JF: i complete agree. how do you proposition them and do they ever curse you out?
FA: I’m usually open and honest when I write them. Time is money and I have to make a first impression that assertive but also doesn’t make me seem unhinged or crazy. For example, I usually do tell these guys that I’m into making them my personal sex worker, but I do so in a nonjudgmental way, and I also don’t assume that they’ve done it before. I have never been cussed out, but I have had guys ignore me, which to me is worst.
JF: so you e-mail these guys and tell them that you want to pay to play?
FA: Yes. I e-mail them and tell them that I’m an ____________, and I think they are interesting. Here’s an example of what I would say in the original e-mail.
I got your e-mail from your Facebook/Twitter/Instagram/Tumblr profile, and I wanted to run something pass you. But first, here’s a little about me. I’m African-American, well adjusted, late 20s/early 30s. I’m an _____________. My specialty is ______________, but enough about that boring stuff. I’m going to cut to the chase. I’m interested in you, or your time rather, for a few hours. I know you’re probably straight, but that really doesn’t matter to me, as I have never been much into titles. I have a few grand to throw around and I figured why not throw it your way. If you’re not interested, sorry for wasting your time. If you are, e-mail me back or hit me up on my cell (in the e-mail tag line).
JF: wow is it really that easy?!
FA: I have friends who have tried and they got no where, so it’s a case by case basis. I haven’t had many problems. A guy is interested or he’s not. If he’s not, he’ll ignore the e-mail. I’ve never had a guy e-mail me and tell me “fuck off” or anything like that.
JF: i am sooooooo intrigued with this! so once they e-mail you or text you, then what?
FA: Once they show interest by e-mailing me or texting me, I then go in for the kill. I ask about their health status and ask if they can provide proof. I ask what they are comfortable with. I even ask what they like to eat. I’m all for the boyfriend experience. Guys gotta eat, right?
JF: “fuck em and feed em”! how long do you talk to a guy before you two decide to meet?
FA: That is based on the guy. I’ve had guys who e-mailed me and told me that if I couldn’t meet in 48 hours, then don’t bother. I actually love those types, as they are better in bed. I’ve also had guys who wanted to be pen pals for months before even agreeing to meet. I travel to the guys and I usually get a nice hotel in the city or elsewhere in the Tri State area.
JF: have you ever been stood up by a guy after making arrangements to meet?
FA: Nope. The guys I deal with are vetted pretty well by me, so I make sure to weed out guys who are wasting time. I haven’t had to weed out any guys though. They weed themselves out. I’ve had to wait months before, but I was successful in getting what I wanted. Guys who aren’t interested don’t write me back, which saves us both time and energy.
JF: are you worried about your safety when meeting these guys?
FA: Absolutely not. I have ways of protecting myself, and again, I weed out guys via vetting. If a guy seems unstable, I don’t bother. I have a good life and I’m not trying to lose it because of a nut job.
JF: word. when you meet these guys, what happens?
FA: Well, not to sound cheesy, but we fuck. Or I fuck them. I have a policy: if I have to pay for it, I’m going to top. If I’m not paying for it, I don’t mind being versatile. I do enjoy giving head, so I do that, but I’m the top in these exchanges.
JF: wait wait wait…wait! so you top attentionistos? by their info messages, one would assume they would be the “wolf” in the situation?
FA: Yes. These guys aren’t gay/straight/bi or wolves/foxes, they are focused on money. Money talks with these guys.
JF: how do you handle the attentionistos who are gay for pay, but homophobic on their social media accounts?
FA: Good question. I’ve dealt with 2 that I can think of. I won’t name any names, but you know who I’m talking about. Oddly enough, both are Latino and strippers. On their social media accounts, they are all about the “bitches.” They will clap back at some of their gay fans because of the comments the gay fan left under a picture or whatever, but they are gay for pay. I’m sure they don’t consider themselves gay for pay, as this is a business transaction. The best way to deal with them, from my own experience, is to keep the encounter superficial, as in making them focus on the money they’ll get, not the act to get the money. Like I said earlier, if a guy read my e-mail and replied, there’s no getting around the fact that I’ve asked, in a subtle way, to fuck for money.
JF: veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy interesting. so do these attentionistos know they are going to bottom?
FA: No, they don’t know. I keep it very basic and very general. I tell them that “we are gonna fuck” but I never say “I’m going to fuck you.” I like the element of surprise. The one guy I told outright that I was going to top him, well, he ended up making me wait months to finally do it. So now I’m much more coy about it.
JF: now most straight wolves don’t really know the “ends” and “outs” of cleaning their asses. they never had to do it before for sex. listen, l’m just going to be frank. how do you make sure they are ready to bottom if you don’t tell them they’ll bottom then?
FA: I tell them that I have an ass fetish and I expect high-quality hygiene, which means that their ass should be clean, and not just the outer layer. I have also sent links and vids about how to clean the rectum just to be on the safe side.
JF: oh ok. have you ever had a guy with poor hygiene show up?
FA: No. I would make him take a shower if he were not up to par.
JF: gotcha. how does the money situation work?
FA: I tell guys that I’m willing to pay a few thousand and that he’ll get half up front and the remainder when it’s over. I usually allow the guy to pick the price, because they always either low ball themselves or pick a crazy high price. If they low ball themselves, I tend to add a bit more just so I can seem like a good guy. Example: They’ll say 1200 and I would have in mind that I’m willing to spend 5000. So I give them 1900 to seem like a good guy. If they engage in inflation, I tell them I’m no longer interested and back away for a bit. They usually come back around and low ball, which allows me to give them more as a way to prove that I’m not bitter or holding a grudge.
JF: you said you give half upfront and the rest later, so are we talking cash or wire transfer?
JF: how much have you spent before?
FA: The lowest I’ve spent was $700 and the most I’ve spent was $11,000.
FA: Yes, I actually have a video of that. I could barely get it in him. He was so tight. He’s a fitness attentionisto that has been featured on some major media outlets, too.
JF: you actually showed me the video. You have a really big pipe. No offense. So how long does the sex last? i imagine if you payin’ all that money, you gonna at last be beatin’ it up for a couple days.
FA: That depends. I’m very honest and open about how high of a sex drive that I have, so I tell these guys that if they want a 45 min session, don’t waste my time. I would say the sex or sexual activity lasts for about 3 hours on average. I like to get my monies worth.
JF: what happens after the sex?
FA: I offer to feed the guy, or we can hang out, shoot the breeze, talk, or they may leave.
JF: do you ever regret paying for sex?
FA: Nope. We both get what we want. I get the thrill and rush of it, and they get a few thousand to spend.
JF: have you ever fallen in love with any of these guys?
FA: Hell no. That’s rule number 1: never get high off your own supply lol. I like these guys, but I like them in the “I want to fuck you” sense, not the “I want to date you or get to know you” sense.
JF: two things that shouldn’t ever be confused in life. my last question: when do you plan on stopping?
FA: I don’t plan on stopping. I like what I’m doing and I plan on doing it until I get bored or get another hobby.
the alleged attentionistos he smashed/plans on smashin soon…
the alleged video he showed me of one of them…
…and i didn’t even go to church yet.
well there you have it.
its amazing what some would do for easy money.
vixens been doing it since the dawn of time.
things change once gyms,
gays with big dreams,
and “slide in my dms” came into existence.
we shouldn’t be surprised tho.
you always wanted to know how these attentionistos live the life of luxury.
“well how they afford x,y, and z with no job?”
well now you know.
hope you enjoyed the interview as much as i did giving it.
stay tuned for much more in the foxhole!
lowkey: i guess personal training is a good escorting service for some.
too bad i don’t pay for pipe.
i may have tried it.
shit i may just be in the wrong profession.