My ass.

It isn’t gigantic.
It isn’t flat.
It is just right for what I need to do when I need to do it.
Feel me?

But there is ALOT more to Jamari than a semi fat ass.
And maybe with you too, right?

Ass can be SO overrated.
A nigga will still smash you with or without a fat ass and still leave you for a nigga with a flat ass.

So check yourself Foxes.

Ass is so serious to some people….
it has both men and women going out and getting shit injected in em to make it bigger.
Ass is so serious to some people….
they think that without one, they will never land a man, baller, or whoever their fantasy man is.

Ass is a beautiful thing, do not get me wrong but to think it is the end all and be all shows a lack of confidence.
I know niggas with phat donkey ass that are single or only used as a fuck machine….
and when I come around,
the same dude is tryna be with me and not because of my booty.

Truth be told,
your ass is the last thing a nigga is paying attention to in public.
It is not one of the deciding factors in if he tries to bag you in the store, train, or school.
You may think it is what matters in landing a man,
and in some cases it is,
but those are only for one nighters and afternooners.

The first thing a man that is attracted to you sees is your face.
Yup.
That big grill of yours.
I asked a few tops what attracted them to me in public and they said everything BUT my ass.

Remember Foxes,
we are not females, no matter how gay some of us are.
Some of us do not have big hips and a protruding ass and are still landing fine ass niggas.
Plus,
we do not wear the same jeans that enhance our lower half.

And I am a firm believer that every man’s ass looks better without jeans on.

The ass thing is only a big deal online,
like on BGC and A4A,
for when we want a hook up or trying to stay incog.
When being spread eagle and cheeks spread on ya living room couch makes a big difference.
… And if the only thing about you is your “ass”,
then you will keep attracting niggas that are only interested in your “ass”.

Only an ass will want you for just your ass.

F0x tips:

Starting being comfortable in your body.
Start loving all your flaws,
whatever they maybe.
Sooner than later,
nothing will stop you from landing dudes.

But in public,
where it matters,
dudes are sizing up your: face, body, swagg, sex appeal, and attitude.
Some more than others.
When you walk out the door,
it is best to have your best face forward to the world.

Personality also takes you a long way too.
Making a dude laugh.
Getting him comfortable.
Flirting with him subtly.
Showing you are the type of dude who is cool to be around.

Those are important factors in breaking down the wall in landing the nigga of your dreams.
You have to be always “on” and “open” to any signs a dude may throw your way.

So keep the “extra” and just be yourself and be real.
No matter what flaw you think you have.
Someone is watching you.

Yeah, YOU.

… and they are waiting patiently on when to let you know so make em work for it.

Which we will talk about later.

Later Foxes.