it’s “therapy thursday” and i’m back at it.
this week’s chapter in “no more mr nice guy” is:
reclaim your masculinity
it was a pretty short chapter,
but these are my answers to the “break free” exercises…
i never try to be different or better from other men.
i want to fit in with other men.
i’m actually more disconnected from gay men.
my site connects me to all types of “us”.
i don’t know any straight/gay i want to get to know better.
maybe a celebrity?
a personal trainer wolf?
someone i can work for?
i don’t neglect my body.
i’m not super health conscious,
but i try to limit junk food and a lot of sugars.
i take multivitamins and fish oil daily.
i don’t smoke and i drink socially.
i also try to get enough rest every night for my long days of work.
i’m doing pretty well in the health department.
i would say i am mentally neglecting myself so i can work on that.
a healthy gay male,
is someone who is:
a lot of my readers are like the traits above.
i take the advice of my readers as i see fit.
i haven’t met a gay male in real life with those qualities.
he is dead,
but my father was:
could be a “yes” man
was disconnected from me because of work
didn’t take time to understand who i was
i could see most of those things within me.
not as strong,
but i see how alike we were doing this exercise.
i don’t know any cubs,
but i have a ton of little brothers who read the foxhole.
many animals have said my site has provided support to them.
it helps me to know i’m helping someone out there.
that’s the blessing of the foxhole.
another chapter done.
i liked that one because it helped me see how “weak” i been acting.
still a work in progress,
but improving day by day!
see ya next thursday!