This maybe a silly question to some…
but I always believe that no question is ever silly enough to ask…
BUT…
Have you ever wondered if a guy has ever looked at YOU and said:
“Wow, he is really beautiful/fine/sexy/handsome”?
… instead of you always saying it in your head?
No I can read minds.
If you can spot someone else’s beauty, attractiveness, or sexiness rest assured someone can spot yours AND reveal themselves to you when they do.
Its not a silly question, I wonder the same thing. Read minds Jay? Dont we all
I know they’ve said it (and women too), sometimes because I find out afterwards if we date or become friends. I was too shy/shaken/lacking onfidence to do anything or believe them. I still get into that mode, but I’m trying to break out because if I think I look good (not in an arrogant or cocky way), then it resonates off me to others. And obviously, people have found me attractive, so I’m doing something right.
So I try to let that feed me instead of doubt & insecurity…
Well usually I get I’m cute but personally I don’t see myself that way. Example I can be at the gym doing pull ups or curls and I get people all the time saying they wish they had my body and drive but I don’t see it. I can be at the store and see people stare and I think I have a booger or something. I guess all the years as the fat kid can change your self image
I work in a high-profile field and I recently went to a convention and met with others in the same profession. These are some of the most beautiful black people in the country so yes, my confidence was a lil shaken. But I have been told that I’m a goodlooking dude, as recently as this week. While I think I look better on some days, I think my look is average.
Well… i don’t necessarily “wonder” because I get told from time to time. “You’re sexy” is the #1 compliment. I’ve gotten “You’re beautiful” a few times, one of those times was from a contemporary artists I’m a fan of so after that my life was pretty much complete. I can tell which stares are just glances versus which ones are of general interests (they linger longer). I attribute all this to the culture of ATL though where if you’re cute they will tell you to your face. I will admit to wanting to know what the guys who i think are drop-dead gorgeous think of my though. Sometimes they’re opinions count a little bit more.
But mostly, I’d like to know when the thought is “Wow, I’d really like to wife him up.”Because so far.. i haven’t experienced too much of that.
^wholeheartedly agree.
the ones who we are attracted to are always a blank canvas, so you never truly know.
i wished, with them, they would be a lot more telling in their approach because, with those types, it matters.
BTW Vain – you got a very interesting comment to your reply in that female artist i featured recently entry down below.
::goes and checks again:::
Yes!
I’m always curious as to how I come off to guys in passing, especially the ones I see on a daily basis. I mean I get stares from time to time but that could mean anything.
I wish I could read minds. lol