i was reading the comments on the entry,
( x pull the triggers ).
i’m so grateful for the foxhole coming out and giving opinions.
many of the comments dealt with the feminine and masculine aspects of being gay.
there seems to be this beef between the masc and fem sides within this life.
i had a thought that came to me as i was reading tho.
not all the way gay
dominant in the relationship
masculine in the relationship
wolf gives oral
doesn’t give oral
fox doesn’t want to give up dick
fox gives up the dick
in the grand scheme of things…
Does this shit really matter anyway?
i’m starting to realize it doesn’t.
it doesn’t guarantee you’ll meet someone interested in more than fuckin’ you.
it won’t make you rich or help you not catch covid.
how people choose to date and fuck in this gay life,
ones that make that them comfortable and aren’t hurting anyone is really their business.
who cares if someone wants to live like the straights?
what puzzles me is that:
White twinks can be on the bottom all day,
and it’s okay for them
i think social media has opened the door to show how people get down,
but it has made some folks really invested as well.
i feel like black males have to be everything or nothing at all.
we aren’t allowed to do “what we want“.
if there is no box to check,
it’s labeled “weird“.
it almost reminds me of being gay and coexisting with the straights.
if they don’t know how to label you,
you are an outcast.
i find when you’re a masc gay within the straights,
they’ll outcast on you faster.
vixens being the main offenders tbh since you aren’t interested in them.
i think all this extra needed beef,
in an already tough life to live in,
doesn’t help to feel you’re doing something “wrong”.
the straights already make us feel like we are doing something wrong,
but some of the gays are making us feel the same as well?