it’s getting too easy to meet criminals off “grindr“or “jack’d“.
you use to have to fear being robbed on a dark street,
but these days,
we let potential hyenas and jackals into our homes.
there are dangers that come with hook ups and love connections.
two gay males in detriot learned that last week.
foxhole…
A Detroit man is charged with shooting two men because they were gay, according to prosecutors.
Demetris Nelson, 26, is accused of attempting to rob and then shooting Brian Anderson, 31, and Malcolm Drake, 26, on Saturday. Anderson died of his wounds while Drake was critically wounded.
there’s more via wxyz:
Demetris Nelson, 26, who uses the alias of Lamont Dashield, is also suspected of being involved in a home invasion in the area of Outer Drive and Alter Road where a 12-year-old boy was sexually assaulted on June 28.
A warrant has been signed charging Nelson with multiple crimes including Felony Murder and Assault with Intent to Rob while Armed. He could be arraigned as early as Friday in homicide case.
Under his alias, Lamont Dashield, Nelson has already been arraigned in another case on multiple charges that include Armed Robbery. His bond was set at $200,000 cash or surety.
Sources tell 7 Action News that Nelson confessed to using various social media apps, including Grindr, to target dozens of people to rob them.
And just about two hours before he allegedly killed Anderson and critically wounded another man, Nelson allegedly used a firearm to rob a man he met on an app.
copy.foxhole,
honestly,
most of these crimes happen because we can’t properly screen.
the foxes see a nice bawdy,
with a big pipe,
and we’re already tail up with fleet running through our system.
we live in an era that just like mcdonalds can be delivered,
sex can be at our doorsteps on command.
we can contact mcdonalds if they fuck up our order.
these career criminals…
yeah,
no.
Are we just as responsible for these crimes by making it pretty easy?
are these just senseless crimes with unfortunate victims?
hmm.
Yeah I’m not here for these apps. I value my life and I have too much self respect to be on these thirst bucket sites. Everybody should try the apps that you gotta pay for. Sounds like the healthy alternative 🤦🏾♂️
People got hurt and people lost their lives, so I definitely want to be respectful, but there are a lot of conversations to be had about this. The first problem is people don’t date; you have to date me, we have to go to get a good cup of coffee, go out to a couple of good restaurants, go out to the movies, concerts, plays, I have to pay for something you have to pay for something and all of this has to be going on before you get my address. The dating process typically will expose someone’s true intentions.
2nd words matter; a booty call in most instances implies a familiar relationship i.e. friends who crossed a line and are now occasional sex partners. Even a one-night stand implies something that is organic with a level of spontaneity i.e. we’re at a club or concert /function with a common interest one thing leads to another and boom you’ve done the deed, you wake up in bliss or you wake up with regret as you prepare for your walk of shame. Again, the spontaneity of a one-night stand will weed out the crazies.
What you really have now is a form of prostitution with these social media apps. The problem with prostitution is the implied desperation that comes along with it. You don’t know how desperate the prostitute is and how far they are willing to go to get your money. Things get further complicated with same-sex prostitution situations because now there are different power dynamics at play, in a man/woman dynamic the man is typically going to be stronger than the woman and so the woman is forced to be submissive , you switch that to a man/man dynamic and now all of a sudden you (the John) may be dealing with a man that is more physically capable than you and now all of a sudden you may be in for the fight of your life if things go wrong.
^PREACH!!!!!
No one should be confused, there are plenty of men who are gay but deal with self-hate and hatred of other gay men! This man has got serious demons and I hope he never comes out of whatever jail they put him in! Infact I pray it’s complete solitary confinement!
This is why I deleted the apps, noticing more and more situations like this happening.. I just want to settle down soon lol, shit is really getting crazy out here.
I would HATE for my family to find out I died like this.. in a way it’s humiliating. Heart really goes out to them…
I’m so confused on story and I will say this screen these motherfuckers before letting them in your house foxhole!
I’m confused. He shot them because they were gay….but he is suspected of having sexually assaulted a 12-year old!?
That’s some crazy shit right there.
^isn’t that shit wild????
he sounds crazier than someone eating cat shit.
Pictures of the victims here:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7241515/Gay-man-slain-wounded-contacted-dating-app.html
^awww they were handsome!!!