one of my biggest issues in life is feeling fomo.
it stems from my childhood.
being last to be picked in gym class,
not feeling noticed by my family,
and just never feeling like i belong or accepted anywhere.

FOMO or Fear of missing out feels like you are missing something that will make you feel like you belong or are complete.

…but do we really feel complete if we are still feeling empty inside?
i cannot afford bey this year.
she got cut for other priorities i got going on.
i’m in that weird “in between blessings” transition period.
i really wanted to go and when i saw all of these videos on twitter…

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my sister was obsessed with b5 when she was younger.
it was cute watching her light up when they came on tv.
they were all brothers or something,
right?
dustin michael,
one of the members of the former group,
had an announcement to share with us.
after the recent death of a trans vixen,
he decided to share his own truth to the forests with this ig video…

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foxhole,
wake up,
a new word just became popular in the black community.
move over “narcissist” and make way for:

Sassy.

it’s not so much new but it’s being used to torment straight males…

…or is it pointing out how feminine many straight black males have become in today’s society?

a vix-bi sent me an interesting discussion on a podcast yesterday.
it was males asking vixens about males being “sassy”.
this inspiring discussion was on “daily rapup crew“…

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uh oh,
they’re about to turn on brittney griner.
my take with trans vixens playing with vixens has a slightly different view.
l always equate trans vixens to wonder woman.
if you put wonder woman on a sports team with vixens,
she will dominate because she is much stronger than them.

i know this might be a hard concept to accept but:

Trans vixens will always be stronger than biological vixens.

thats not meant to be hurtful but it’s the truth.
brittney says it’s a crime to ban trans vixens in biological vixens in sports…

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i’ve come to realize:

There are some people who have never been treated well.

the “all my life i had to fight” types.
so…

They don’t know how to act when someone is being genuinely kind to them.

you try to date them and they’ll treat you like shit.
you try to be friends with them and they’ll treat you like shit.
they’re always on guard,
looking for “ops”,
or will call you corny because you don’t come in the shade “triflin’ af”.

it’s like the gays who try to cape for the attentionistos.

The “let me try to show him kindness so he can like me” types

God,
i use to be that brand of pick me too.
a wolf in the following story tried to take a vixen out on a date.
she curves him as a result because…

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why are people so nasty and so rude to folks minding their business?
it has happened to me and people i know.
you could be minding your business,
looking and feeling cute,
and a big-body bully jackal bitch(es) decides to pull up in public.
you don’t even know them but it’s “fuck with you” o’clock.
some of ya’ll likes to fight so yall live for these moments.
others end up shrinking and it can ruin their whole day.
this vixen by the name of @jackielabonita was minding her business,
looking cute at a baseball game,
and recorded two bully she-jackal bitches trying to pull up on her…

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