as a society,
we really need to work on what the term “phobic” is.
i need people to understand:

There are many people in the forest who don’t want to date someone fluid.

that is the first step in moving forward.
its a form of bullying and creates liars in the process.
folks in the community get so offended if a vixen says she wants to date a straight wolf.

110% straighty straight-straight wolf.
Not one who is has messed with other males before or deals with trans vixens.

nene leakes can get on my nerves,
but she had thoughts about her type of manz with TS madison on her show.
they are calling her transphobic now…

Yikes.
I do NOT like this picture of Angelica Ross.
I’ve seen her do better.

in all of the years i fonted with The Foxhole,
i’ve never put up any pictures of work wolf and me.
hell:

The NFL Baller Wolf and me.

can i just font i’m so proud of myself for bagging that big wolf?
one: boundaries.
two: my desire to show evidence about (past) penis i was into is really low.
angelica ross is “one of those”.
the type who can’t hold water to save their own life.
i think it stems from trauma of not being seen.
believe it or not,
but many trans vixens and gays suffer from the same trauma.
so now,
she wants us to see her even at the expense of others.

She is also crazy AF but that’s a whole other story.

she put up this picture of michael b jordan but the way she captioned it…

i’m going to font a controversial statement.
ready?

I blame Megan Thee Stallion for this Tory Lanez shit.

disclaimer: this is NOT about her getting shot.
i fully believe tory shot her.
people can talk or font to me until they are blue in the face.
move along to someone else who doesn’t have common sense and hates to read.

no,
this is what i blame her for…

i was hanging out with my straight wolves last night and nfl baller wolf,
travis hunter,
randomly came up.
oof.
one of the wolves said:

“We tried to warn him.
This fool would drop that chick to parties and sit in the car.
He is a simp.”

i had to google and yes Foxhole,
he did use to do that via akademiks:

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…then i remembered this is the one whose girlfriend allegedly ( x doesn’t really like him )!
oooooooh,
this is the one.

well he didn’t care because as soon as he got ( x drafted ),
and pulled in that $46.6 million,
including a $30.6 million signing bonus,
she became the wife QUICK.
he doesn’t need to sit in the car anymore because for her wedding present…

What do you do when someone you like…
starts sounding like a press release for a company that’s actively fumbling the bag and the culture?

two weeks ago,
i wandered into the times square target just to peep the vibe.
no mission but just fox-like curiosity.
i’m not gonna hold you:

If there’s a boycott happening,
the memo got lost somewhere with some black folks.

black folks were definitely up in there shopping.
so when tabitha brown,
someone i’ve genuinely liked and respected for her light and warmth,
posted that weird video about…

What if masculinity wasn’t what we were taught to admire?
What if it was something quieter,
steadier,
and far more powerful?

when someone loves us for who we are,
not for our highlight reels,
not for our past,
and not for who they want us to be but:

The real,
unfiltered,
and sometimes ugly us.

yes,
the ugly us.
the one underneath the filters.
the one that has the demons and the insecurities.
when they don’t flinch or are embarrassed at our flaws.
the one who don’t play bout you and will square up if someone disrespects you.

You better hold on to them.
Tight. AF

i used to believe masculinity lived in the gym.
it was big biceps,
played sports,
and an intimidating stare.
some males,
sure,
but i’ve learned:

Just because someone looks like a man,
that doesn’t mean they act like one.

muscles don’t equal depth; a scowl doesn’t make you safe.
masculinity is not a role we play,
a script we memorize,
or photos we post.
it’s how we show up for ourselves and our loved ones,
especially when no one’s watching.
i thought about this when alex fine spoke out after cassie’s testimony yesterday…