the lonely heart follows you everywhere you go

many people have suggested i move to cali.
personally,
i’m not ready for the west coast yet.
i haven’t even visited so i don’t know if i’ll even like it.

Not only that,
I heard black males over there don’t like anything that isn’t exotical black,
white,
or other.

someone i’m familiar with moved to cali from new yawk.
they were complaining about feeling alone since getting out there.
this is what they fonted…

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the foxhole fav that i feel empathy for

chadoy leon.
a foxhole fav who was a tumblr fav years ago.
a few years ago,
he lost his brother in a very tragic way.
ive noticed something about chadoy that a foxholer picked up on too…

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group therapy broke me

sometimes,
we learn quickly that there are others in worst positions than us.
our problems are molehills compared to the mountains of many others.
i asked my therapist to try out group therapy last week.
i was very excited about taking my therapy journey to the next step,
but it ended up draining me for a few days…

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don’t say black males need therapy because you’ll get fired for it?

^this vixen who goes by @unusuallybree,
who happens to be a therapist,
paid the price for being vocal.

she stated that black males need to go to therapy.
this is what she said on tiktok:

allegedly,
many black males weren’t happy with what she said.
she even got written about ( x here ).
it ended up with her getting fired:

and she is crying in a new video because the blowback has been heavy…

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what’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “gay” ?

that hand has been used to describe me more often than not.
that picture always unlocks a trigger.
i saw a thread on reddit titled:

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told not to do because it’s “Gay” ?

i know this topic all to well.
many of us were tortured by this growing up.
minding our business,
drinking our koolaid snaps,
and someone telling us something we are doing is “gay”.
i can name 2 that stick out in my head…

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their bad is bigger than my bad so… my bad?

when we are going through it,
everyone else looks shiny and new.
you’re home; they’re out
you’re broke, they’re buying versace
you’re single; they’re riding the d train to countless orgasms
usually when this is happening,
we are in an emotional desert and our minds are playing tricks on us.
every single time that i look at others and feel sudden insecurities,
like i’m missing out or my life really sucks compared to,
they end up telling me how…

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