antarctica.
one of the coldest places on earth.
the lowest temperature recorded was -133.6 degrees.
you couldn’t survive in that weather with 1,000 northface coats.
ironically,
one of the coldest temperatures you could feel is being on the outside.
that place where you want to feel included with your peers,
but you feel like you don’t receive the same love that others get.
that place can feel colder than ice.

i was watching i was watching issa rae’s stories today…

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i love jamie lee curtis.
one of my favorite movies of hers that i own is “true lies”.
i saw that movie as a cub and fell in love with her character.
she’s also an iconic scream queen as laurie strode in “halloween”,
one of my favorite slasher flicks.
well i read an interesting article with her today.
she had some advice for how she’s had a long marriage.
this is what she had to say via “good house keeping”…

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sometimes,
you just want to give it all up and move on.
i can understand that.
what i don’t understand is lack of communication.
we aren’t 6 or 7 anymore.
we are grown ass adults now.
we be fearless to have raw sex with a stranger,
but scared to be honest with someone we love.
baffled?
i am.
so imagine being in a relationship for close to 8 years,
you think you’re with the person you’d grow old with,
and they randomly hit you with…

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you want to read one of the biggest reasons the dl get outed?
this could be universal tho.
everyone who plays the following game gets exposed
so i’ll font this…

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young buck use to be a real snack in his prime.
now tho…
eh.

i look at him as “in-between” pipe.
when you’re in limbo waiting for “the one”,
but need some “not a challenge” dick in between time.
ya’ll know the types i’m talmbout.
i don’t know what to think about this following story tho.
allegedly,
a trans-vixen leaked a video that she had alleged relations with young buck.

hmm.
 he decided to respond to the allegations like so….
via “the jasmine brand”…
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this is an entry for my male readers.
straight.
gay.
bi.
whatever.
we need to keep our erections in full check.
sometimes when males are horny,
and really attracted to someone,
we get way too aggressive at times.
check: the social media comments of attentionisto/nistas.

i’m guilty of fonting while horny on the foxhole.
like,
some people are for it and others…
nope.
in real life however,
some folks are way too aggressive with the touching.
i’ve learned…

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