If you’re going to play around with the DL,
you have to remember the golden rules in order to play the game successfully.

when he adds you,
doesn’t follow back,
but ya’ll end up connecting on the low,
never use your real account to speak to him on.
if he’s truly interested,
take it off whatever social media you met on.
you can find an app where you both can chat privately.
i like whatsapp.

if you insist on fonting on IG for instance,
use a burner with disappearing messages.

Sidebar: the next ios update with locked and hidden apps?
The DL game is about to change big time.

anyway,
it’s all about keeping things clean and your identity safe.
he’s keeping you in the closet; you’re keeping him in the closet.
so there were a lot of mistakes in this DL facebook drama i was sent.
that damn facebook.
i feel like lessons were learned for our dear,
ahmaud walker…

when of our peers gets exposed for not playing nice,
or just being a total scumbag,
it’s a bad look for anyone siding with them.
“guilty by association” is real and it seems katy perry clearly missed that memo.
ke$ha’s trauma with dr. luke was headline news back in 2014.
( x read about it here )
she even dropped a album and song (that i loved) about er healing process.

So “why come” Katy thought it was a good idea to team up with Dr. Luke for her comeback?

the wild part?…

can i ask ya’ll a serious question.
this is just something i’ve been pondering the last few days,
while watching all the rage and think pieces from trump supporters.

Why is it okay for Trump to contradict himself?
Why does he get a pass for his shenanigans?

it’s like the sibling who can do whatever but we get punished for breathing wrong.
remember when it came to hilary “lock her up” clinton back in 2016…

america is in this really weird place that when shit is about to go down,
especially when white folks are involved,
we assume that their privilege will protect them.
i assumed trump would be found not guilty and he’d be on his merry way.
i didn’t see this on my bingo card,
well i didn’t have a bingo card for this,
but this verdict…

in this digital age,
what does it take for us to see through the smoke and mirrors?
take the above nonsense from kelly price,
for instance.
po’ po’ kelly price.
it made me think about all the celebs that church folks have wasted prayers on.

Rihanna’s bruised face was everywhere online, yet somehow, we were supposed to pray and forgive Chris Brown while Rihanna was painted as the villain by many in the black community. He went on to get awarded mad BET Awards that same year while BET continued to spite Rih.

R. Kelly preyed on young girls, dated a young Aaliyah, and abused them all. But we were still told to pray for him, while his victims were labeled “fast.”

Megan Thee Stallion gets shot, there’s video evidence, yet Tory Lanez is seen as the victim because she allegedly had a questionable past.

Diddy, with his history of abuse and power plays, makes an “apology” video, and suddenly, he needs our prayers and sympathy. Not only that, the rumors are Cassie deserved that beating because she alleged stole a Rolex from someone worth 800 million and continued to date this alleged “thief” after this.

ye,
trump,
so on and so forth…
do you see the pattern here?
whenever someone is a victim…

i couldn’t help but wonder,
in a world without the internet…

Would we still be hanging on to Diddy’s every word,
taking his “apology” at face value?

the real kicker is,
he managed to trip over his own statements by his actions.
diddy said his accusers,
cassie included,
were fabricating stories for a quick payday.
he even said in another post that time will tell the truth.
but then,
bam,
a video surfaces of his abuse caught him up in 1080p.
what really gets me when watching the “apology” video…