i had a nasty headache yesterday,
plus been waking up to some weird ass anxiety,
i took a sick day,
but i woke up today to ^this foxmail.
this lurker is very angry over my entry in regards to ( x atl tayh ).

let’s make ^that into a message,
shall we?…

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i came to a conclusion while listening to “i believe in you and me” by whitney.
the whole song is like the affirmations for a long-lost love.

she “believed” that they will return.
it was that word:

“Believe”

that word gave me my “a-ha moment“…

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black folks need a warning yet again.
this goes for every community tbh.
some of the gays can be EXTRA jealous and catty so this applies.
as you know,
many black folks come from the hoods of struggle.
we imagined the “good life” and strived to be there.
that seat at the table.
unfortunately,
many of us like to advertise our new worth on social media.

Gold chains
Designer clothes
Nice cars
Hanging with the haves

these things can raise our social stock within the communities.
the invites,
the follows,
the sex,
and the “in”.

a majority of us are a shallow and materialistic bunch tbh.
i’ve seen a lot of jealousy and envy in my own life to understand…

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i believe there are3 types of folks in the forests.

White
Black
Grey

white being they are relatively good people.
they follow the rules and others have good things to say about them.
fighting and drama is just not on their “to-do” list.
they legit mind their business and don’t bother anyone.
i feel like those types are few and far between.

black are the jackals and hyenas.
these people lie,
cheat,
steal,
and kill proudly like it’s second nature to them.
their trauma wasn’t healed and their behavior was left unchecked.
they thrive on burning bridges and destroying everyone in their paths.
it’s easier to be black because it takes no effort to do wrong.

the rest of us reside in the grey area…

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i had an interesting discussion with fancy about manifestation.
while we were having the conversation over the weekend,
i had an “a-ha” moment.
she was saying that in manifestation,
you shouldn’t try to manifest someone in particular.
like,
your ex or some male you desire on ig.

“If you manifest a specific person,
they might be the worst thing to enter into your life…”

i always see spiritual twitter saying this but then i responded:

“Well,
I don’t think thats always true because…

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as you know,
i have had my share of “males i wanted to fuck at work“.
the main work wolf saga brought many of you to my yard.
it’s no shocker that we may find some of our co-workers fine.
there is always a fine-ass co-worker OR the one that’s “cute by default“.
if we do end up smashin’ them,
we may end up fuckin’ up our money and mental health in the end.
so i did the foxhole a solid.
i made pros and cons about workplace fuckin’…

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