living a double life can be tough.
i can imagine how hard it is for spiderman.
peter parker in a touch base at work and green goblin is tearing up the city.
how does he let his boss know he has to dip to live his double life?
you gotta present yourself one way to the world,
but you’re secretly indulging in your true desires in private.
i think of the biggest issue is…
Everyone wants to know what you’re doing
…especially if you’re attractive.
folks feel entitled to know your business.
my issue is:
Why do we fall victim to having to explain ourselves?
people who aren’t confident care about the whispers of others.
i use to be like that but i really don’t care.
if you chose to be single and private about your dating life,
which happens to be of the same sex,
then that’s on you.
the first problem is always:
Giving a fuck.
stop giving a fuck.
people who get rattled about those who question their sexuality tend to be the worst.
they always go get some vixen to prove their straightness.
that always involve random characters that don’t need to be added to the story.
the crazy part is they look more obvious when they get with the vixen.
Just do you.
i think it first starts with the expectations society puts on others,
especially with males.
if people can’t pinpoint your sexuality,
they start labeling you as gay since they don’t understand.
folks will assume a male is straight because he is sleeping with numerous vixens.
if he isn’t doing that,
he is automatically a suspect.
the problem is falling victim to explaining and proving yourself.
If you don’t go through the lengths of trying to prove yourself,
no one will care.
once folks get comfortable in their own skin and stop volunteering information about their lives,
you’ll be at a maximum level of no fucks to give.