meeting someone,
who just got out of a long term relationship,
is the pits.
the.
pits.
well for you,
it might be the pits.
if the break up is still fresh,
everything will be compared to the ex.
you won’t fully measure up,
but you’ll be a pleasant distraction in the mean time.
realistically tho,
you’re in a rebounding honeymoon phase.
that’s when the sex is usually bomb.

make up,
revenge,
dl,
cheating,
and “just got out of a relationship” sex is:

you’re something to do “in between”.
“in between” until they meet the next whose like the ex.
i’m in one of those right now…

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“hey jamari.
i know you’ve been here for a week.
you’ve done a pretty good job doing all of the basic tasks we asked for.
you’ve taken initiative to make sure the office is fully stocked and cleaned.
how are you feeling about this position?
is it something you’d be interested in?…”

in a perfect wonderland,
my current supervisor would run that paragraph by me.
nope.
i sat and watched all the interviews from my head huntress come in.
not only that…

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i swear,
if i was a tv show,
it’d be called “awkward black fox”.
ugh.
if i’m around new folks i’m not comfortable with then forget it.
i’m laughing like a donkey or feeling like i have nothing to say.
a whole “where is your fox swagg, jamari?” type of situation.
so today was my first official day by myself at this new gig.
well…

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sometimes,
the universe leads you to things you asked for unexpectedly…
so this morning,
the gig didn’t start out too good.
i got up early,
left my spot early,
and headed to my new gig early.
i ended up at the wrong address wayyyy across town…

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FOXMAIL

I love your blog. I was asking for advice from you and your readers. I just tested negative for HIV and want to go on PREP. My private employer and their healthcare provider will not let me enroll in wellness programs to keep my insurance premiums down because of this.

is this allowed?

MY ANSWER…

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my old job ishaving a real problem trying to replace me.
every single person who comes in,
according to my ex co worker,
leaves within a few days,
if not that day.
i was minding my business,
working on career goals,
when she hit me up to text about the latest…

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