after years of being in no contact,
getting into other relationships,
and 1/2 having new mouths to feed,
it seems like ashanti and nelly are back together in 2023.
^this is them at the gc black ball.

 

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the gp is split down the middle with opinions.

Some were hoping they’d get back together.
Others think she is crazy, especially with how he treated her.

…but can people change enough for that reconnect?
who we were in our teens,
we aren’t in our 20s,
and who we were in our 30s is not who we are in…
well,
you get the picture.

i’ve been thinking a lot about getting back with those from your past.
this can even be about friendships,
estranged family members,
and returning to jobs we left many moons ago.
we all know that facebook is where the past tends to find us again but…

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i had an interesting discussion with fancy about manifestation.
while we were having the conversation over the weekend,
i had an “a-ha” moment.
she was saying that in manifestation,
you shouldn’t try to manifest someone in particular.
like,
your ex or some male you desire on ig.

“If you manifest a specific person,
they might be the worst thing to enter into your life…”

i always see spiritual twitter saying this but then i responded:

“Well,
I don’t think thats always true because…

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this is one of my worst fears tbh.

Finally meeting some (baller) wolf I’m really into,
he is into me as well,
things are great until he is upset and punches me into the oven.

from nerds to wolves who play by the rules in public,
you just never know who is abusive af out here.
wtf is going on with all these toxic and abusive relationship stories these days?
i’m starting to be grateful i’m single.
ex baller jackal of the nfl,
zac stacy,
just got exposed for abusing his baby mama in front of his 5-month-old son and well…

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i’ve been thinking a lot about my life as of late.
where i went wrong with the jackals that i thought were in my corner.
it’s a real eye-opener when you wake up from the slumber of stupidity.
the more i apologized for reacting to their bad behavior,
the more it was used against me.

you think to yourself:

“Damn…
If I knew then,
what I knew now,
I would have had insert person here wrapped around my entire finger.”

many of those kind of people were doormats to bigger demons than them.
they met their match with someone else who didn’t tolerate their shit.
this following tweet really spoke to me today…

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when we break up with a toxic ex,
the name of the game is:

“Who is gonna die lonely and miserable.”

i’m kidding!
kinda.
so everyone meet zeldin aka @itszeldin from twitter.
he was hit up to join a threesome by someone named “horny dl“,
but once he saw the pic of “yellow short dude booty good af“…
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everyone always think males,
of all sexuality,
are the ones who kiss and tell.

You might be shocked to realize how many vixens will spill the beans.

many vixens tell me all about dudes they got smashed by.
i’ve been told how the stroke was and how big the pipe is.
luckily for them,
the dick and stroke reports stopped with me.

Many vixens will out a male in a heartbeat too.

they will quietly observe until a pot of tea is poured and there ya go.
“i knew he was gay because…”
actress,
olivia munn,
went on whitney cummings podcast to softly outed an ex boyfriend.
this is what she had to say @1:25…

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