The Universe is so interesting and i love it so.
i must be vibrating high while being sick right now.
i was being told to watch a new show last night.
it’s called “love is blind” on netflix,
where contestants date without seeing each other.
but the show is pretty addictive.
well one of the contestants is named carlton morton and he’s bisexual.
cartlon has a scene where he tells his potential mate,
that he’s bi.
a foxholer sent me a story about him today just as i watched that show last night.
carlton uploaded a scene from the show and a caption to his ig…
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“…I may leave this Earth alone. But I will leave this Earth sayin’ I was fxckin’ honest, I didn’t fxckin’ deceive nobody, and I didn’t one of the hardest fxckin’ things!… I’m not a hider! What am I hiding for? Why can’t I be myself?” 💔 Out of everyone on the cast, I’ve had it the hardest. From death threats for living my truth, to horrible misconceptions about what biphobia truly is… it’s insane. People are judging me off of less than 3 minutes of my life and an INDIRECT insult which I tried to fix one sentence later because that’s not who I AM! Y’all won. It’s all good! Biphobia is real and let’s not pretend like people don’t search for an easy exit when it’s something they can’t UNCONDITIONALLY love you for. People are so hateful. It’s all good though.💔 #LoveIsBlind
cartlon went on v-103 in atlanta to have a chat,
but when the host told him he “has to pick a side”,
this is how he responded:
via “gay times“:
After one of the station’s hosts suggested to Carlton that he “has to make a decision” between dating either men or women so that he can find love, he decided it was time to give them a lesson on bi erasure.
“No, that’s problematic, we cannot do that. Making me make a decision means you cut out the B in the LGBT community. That means I have to be heterosexual or gay,” he said.
“You understand how incorrect that is and how offensive that is to bisexual people? You are basically wiping them out by saying they have to make a choice. That’s the whole point of us being bisexual.”
When the host replied that she “didn’t mean” to offend him, Carlton replied: “I know that you didn’t, which is why I’m starting the conversation. We have to think about what we say.”
didn’t mean to offend him?
what she said to him was offensive.
i could have sworn cartlon told her in the pod that he was attracted to “hearts” in the first episode.
maybe she chose not to hear it.
i keep telling folks that bisexuality is a real thing but sadly…
It’s never okay for males to be bi
vixens can eat a mouth full of cooch and still go back to males.
as soon as a male does it,
he’s gay with no questions asked.
most of us where “bi” before we were honest with ourselves that we were gay.
on the chat sites back then,
most of the profiles from the sexiest wolves were marked “bi”.
most wouldn’t even fuck with you if you had “gay” as your orientation.
i feel being “bi” for males is ooked down upon.
not only by the straights but by others in the community as well.
it’s often associated with being “dl”.
if that’s the case…
Is it because DL males have given such a bad stereotype for being bisexual?
out of fear,
some dl males are bi and usually dip back and forth between both sexes.
he’d fuck a vixen just as fast as he’d fuck another male.
the stereotype is they spread diseases in their dipping,
but raw sex and not knowing who your partner is causes the same outcome.
that can be a “all communities” issue.
one of my straight wolves just told me he fucked some vixen raw while cheating on his fiance.
the “b” means being “bisexual“.
males can and are being bisexual out here.
i’d date a bisexual male tbh.
unless a male is being problematic in his bisexuality,
like lying and passing diseases,
i say let males choose how they want to identify themselves.
gay males can be just as problematic.
Anyone from gay to straight,
male to female,
can be problematic.
with males tho,
folks have to stop being so hard on how the male species choose to identify.
we want everyone to live their truth but shame/question them when they do,
especially when it comes to those with dicks.
fun fact: carlton is the one who got into it with kenya from “rhoa” during her first season…
it’s funny how reality folks hop from show to show.
article cc: gay times