Ready for it?
NOT.
IMPRESSED.
PERIOD.
He went from Amber to a cashier from Walmart?
WTH?
Yeezy could do so much better.
He is too short for my taste.
I kid….
Maybe.
He is skinnin’ and grinnin’ extra hard so she may have put that good cooch on him.
Either way, Amber weeps.
You really want an answer to that question? lol
I’d like an answer to that question. lol Sure, we can’t compare ourselves to women because we are not one… but we can compare our experiences in dating men. There are many parallels and similarities. By sheer numbers there are more of the hetero types, yes. Within the context of our community, the rules just seem to be different. Standards are much higher and the proportion of coupled individuals is much less despite many claiming to want to be a part of one. Deal breakers and change and all of those things tend to come AFTER the initial step of getting a wolf you’d be interested in. Most of us can’t even get to that point! THAT is where my issue is.
When Jamari says things like “If you aren’t assed out on Xtube, sucking 20 dicks, you are single and hating it”… that sentiment is echoed with a lot of other foxes i know. Many of us are doing what we feel is inline with what you would want in a serious partner… independent, goal setting, well groomed, stable, and still… NOTHING! How does one get to treat you like “the man” and inspire you to change and show that we’re looking for serious when it seems like the only interaction you want to have is when our clothes are off? If its really that many wolves are not looking for commitment or exclusivity and just want no-strings-attached sex while you put in as little effort as possible and we continue to be available to you… PLEASE LET US KNOW… so we can stop wasting our time lol. Because it’s really leaving many of us lost, confused, and jaded.
^u hit the nail on the head with this one Vain.
The only ‘green’ is that there’s a bigger pool from which to choose, because there are more straight wolves. Otherwise, I’d call it a wash.
But you can’t compare yourself to women — cuz you’re not one. That’s comparing apples to oranges. As a wolf, if I want to be with a women, Imma be with a woman. If I want to be with a fox, Imma get with a fox — for totally separate reasons. The reason the ugly/fat ones (foxes or vixens) get the dudes is because they know how to stroke his ego. If you make me feel like ‘The Man,’ when I’m with you — do you know what that does? There’s also an element of upward-mobility & appearance w/vixens, but we’re not talking about them right now.
And while women do have that ‘list,’ don’t front like you foxes don’t have one as well. We all have a list of some sort in our minds. But you’re dealing with a person, not a list — what are your deal-breakers, and what can you compromise & work out? You can’t change me — you can only inspire me to WANT to change.
^very good comment.
I actually agree with this point.
I wish more Wolves would share some knowledge.
If we could get an idea into the “Wolf” mentality, we wouldn’t be so lost and confused.
I applaud YBW for being bold and leaving that comment.
Thank u.
also
my issue is the amount of easy Foxes nabbin Wolves.
If you aren’t assed out on Xtube,
sucking 20 dicks,
you are single and hating it.
Do you have to be a “ho” to snag the wolf of your dreams?
And what if u are a freak,
rather being being an easy fuck.?
Is that bad?
It isn’t really about the public element. Thats already understood that hetero-normative values dominate our society. I’m more so referring to the idea that the standards for what makes them desirable is a lot different and in my opinion a lot lower. In my opinion her black-gay-male-level-of-attractiveness-equivalent would have a much tougher time.
…and last thought…
yes she may have a pussy, but who is to say the “fine dude” even wants her?
i have alot of vixen friends who complain that the fat or ugly girls get the men they want.
not every dude will fuck you because you have a pussy.
women also go through worst so never think the grass is greener on the other side.
Are these vixens the same women who turn down attractive men because they don’t meet some larger than life list of requirements that many women have? Plenty of dudes will have sex with you because you has a pussy. The difference is they won’t STAY with you because you have one. Ugly/Fat girls get the men because they’re approaching the situation a lot differently. There are many expectations women put on men that don’t necessarily coincide with who these men are which subsequently drives them and/or keeps them away. And The amount of them who are able to get the same types we look for would suggest that yes, maybe there’s just a bit more green over there lol. Where they don’t have to spend their time fantasizing about straight men in the way that we often times do. But that’s just me…
i agree.
i also believe that there are dudes out here that look just as good, are masculine, our ideal fantasy, and looking for a Fox.
i use straight wolves as jack off fantasies these days.
Discouraging? Cuz they bagged some wolf doing hoe-shyt you wouldn’t, so therefore you wouldn’t get him anyway?
if you have a standard, everyone isn’t gonna meet it – that’s why it’s a standard. Sure you can settle & do what’s necessary to get some pipe/cash/whatever, but you choose not to. So why fret over someone who is? They just weren’t meant for you anyway.
(not picking on you, Vain, specifically – just the mentality that many of us can fall into)
It isn’t necessarily her that’s the issue. Sure we don’t know the whole details of their situation but there seems to be a consistent theme. In our lifestyle, bagging the one you want seems to require a lot more compared to what the fysh have to go through. With them, its like…. just have a vagina… and you’re set.
well…um…yeah, it is easier for them! Lol
and until the day comes that it’s socially acceptable to be with the same sex in public, it always will be — sorry to be Debbie Downer…
they never learn.
You don’t even have to be pretty…
*sigh*
…but you knew this already.
Its really discouraging.