the word “friend”.
we throw it around a lot.
we give it to those who were nice to us for a day.
95% of those in our lives are not our friends.
well one of my home vixens is learning that tonight…
she met this wolf a few years ago.
they had an issue where he showed her who he was.
she chose not to believe it.
they stop speaking,
but he comes back into her life recently.
they start talking again.
because she wanted to take it slow,
but they going out on different get togethers.
they do make out a few times,
but he was respectful.
he knew what she wanted as far as a relationship,
but under the guise of “friends”,
she started feeling comfortable.
AND THERE IS A WELL…
so she goes over to a mutual friend’s crib last week.
his car was there.
he didn’t know she was coming over.
when she walks in,
he suddenly vanishes.
there was a snow bunny there that she never saw within the mix.
she apparently looked lost as she knew no one.
when she asks where dude was,
everyone was confused af.
“i don’t know.
he was here just a minute ago.
that is his girlfriend tho…” – someone in the crib said.
que the random snow bunny.
now he told her,
as a “friend”,
that he was single and wasn’t talking to anyone.
THAT’S A LIE
where he went?
you know he left the snow bunny,
who don’t know anyone,
in the crib and ran and hid in his car????
all because he got caught up???
she called me the next day to tell me.
“how could he do this?
he was supposed to be a friend?”
he wasn’t a friend tho.
she said she would give it a week to see if he contacts her.
her coat is in his car.
i already knew that was a done deal.
WELL IT’S BEEN A WEEK.
she called me tonight and was confused.
she kept saying that he was supposed to be a friend to her.
he wanted to fuck and was playing the “friend role” until it happened.
“…but the snow bunny?”
“she was a stand in.
he probably would have left her,
rinse repeat with you,
and then found someone else.”
“you mean to tell me a wold would wait that long,
pretend to be a friend to me,
just so he could have sex?”
what world is she living in?
even in the gay life,
i have been “friends” with males waiting to take me down.
educated or dumb.
suburban or hood.
it don’t matter.
i have males of all positions try me.
even i have thought it with certain wolves i knew.
straight or gay.
there is no friends with a male.
he will wait 20 years for that cooch/bootyhole.
she feels sad the connection ended,
but she will get over it.
it is another lesson for the “life rolodex”.
as far as her coat…
he is probably waiting for her to contact him about the coat.
he will hold it hostage so he talk to her about what happened.
he will feed her lies to lure her back into his trap.