Everyone meet TaTa Deliciouz
BEFORE
Typical fem boy, huh?
Well look at the NEW AND IMPROVED BUTT CHEEKS!
AFTER
Nice hair.
Fat jumbo sized ass.
Big lips.
Thick.
Red bone.
I’m sure he is poppin ‘n’ droppin’ that on some Hood Wolf cack.
This person has now become the newest “star” on the scene.
Well on Facebook and Twitter…
With enough estrogen pills, he could morph into:
Queenz = the new Wolf Snack
heheheh.
I think he said he tried it and didn’t like it.
That’s a great point. Never thought about that.
You guys have this idea that since you’re foxes you’re supposed to be approached. How in the hell would someone deduce you’re a fox who wants to be approached if they can’t even figure out you like men?
I’m not looking for anyone to dominate or submit to. We’d have to do it 50/50.He can lead when he knows best and vice versa.
^aren’t you are a Hybrid?
It makes a lot of sense because I’m the exact same way.I’m more likely to sit back and observe everything happening in the room than be in the middle of it entertaining everyone. I can be that if I have to be, but I’d rather not.
So I guess what I mean by being aggressive is in moreso a dating aspect, than in your social life. Do you have an expectation (or rather a desire) to be approached first? Do you ever feel the need to do the chasing and if so, when?
By the way, I fully appreciate the second paragraph. I love a wolf who can admit he needs affection. Talk about a turn on.
OMG damn Im glad I wasnt drinking anything, I literally hollered out loud at this. Damn man you dont know how close you are to the truth with this. LMAO!!!!!!!
Lol no Jamari, that’s taking it too far.
Your sexual personality your personal demeanor — at least to me (btw, – ‘does not equal’). I’m more aggressive & dominant in the bedroom than I am in normal life. I’m a shy person/introverted – I’m not the person talking to everyone at parties or who has a lot of ‘friends’ … just give me a few close people & a quiet night at home or low-key dinner for two & I’m good. I’m one of those quiet leaders, I suppose. People around me – especially once they know me – kinda expect for me to lead (and I usually do); I’m just not overly agressive about it…if that makes sense.
No, I don’t want you to f*ck me lol; yet since we’re two dudes, I’m not gonna lord anything over you (I don’t even do that w/a woman). If we’re dating, I would end up making most of the suggestions or taking the lead – yet I also need to see you contributing as opposed to submitting to me: you make a date for us; call me first sometimes, I like to be held too lol…things like that. That make sense?
These comments are very interesting.
I think alot of times if you are attractive, well dressed, in shape, other similiar dudes are either intimidated by you or view you as competition, or probably think you are already with someone. I put alot of effort in looking fresh when I go out, on top of trying to keep the body tight and grooming tight, but always get looked over by dudes I find attractive. Went out tonight as a perfect example, a white dude, a drag queen, and a old queen tried to spark convo, but saw a couple of brotha’s who ignored me. I was told that since I was tall by one dude that I come off as intimidating and unapproachable. I was really surprised by this, its hard for me to go up to a dude cold without getting a feeling that he is feeling me, so I cant trip if someone else is like this as well, by the end of the night we probably are both tired and there goes another missed opportunity. Dudes like shim have no problem going up to any dude and probably 90perc. of the time it works.
I am at the point of asking myself if Im being unrealistic thinking that I am going to find a dude who is on point appearance wise and have a good heart as well, its usually either/or. Reading this blog gives me a new attitude not to settle, but I would be lying if Im not frustrated by the slim pickings of brothers who are about anything.
I hear you tajan! My question is what does approachable look like?
I’m convinced it is this:
http://www.tumblr.com/photo/1280/minimalism-masterpiece/17153514795/1/tumblr_lysuxqnp9Z1qfrvbm
So the moral of the story is since you can’t really “tell” that i “get down” it is up to me to walk by and stare you down, hope that you staring at me means you’re interested, and proceed to introduce myself all the while not trying to come on too strong or try to emasculate you by being too dominant?
I get checked out more often than not. Even in the club as i walk by. But i never get approached. I have issues with making eye contact because i get nervous or i dont wanna seem rude. I suppose i need to change my approach in order to get what i want.
If he’s interested in you to begin with, I doubt you’re going to emasculate him. You can only fuck it up by throwing ass at him like a ratchet dude.
I can understand your situation. They’re staring, but they’re not approaching so they must not be interested. Do you think you can decipher whether someone’s interested?
To an extent, yes i can. I know that subtle difference in the way they stare when they’re interested versus when they’re just trying to get a glimpse of you. Sometimes they stare back because they think you’re staring and not because they’re interested. But there is a somewhat distinctive gaze that they give you when they like what they see. Its often an extentage gaze with their chin tucked down slightly, they stare at you’re eyes instead of your entire self because they’re trying to catch your attention. You may get a smirk or they’ll lick their lips. Uglier boys are more overt with it. Cuter one’s don’t stare as long.
But to Jay and YngBlfWolf isn’t part of the reason you all are wolves is because you’re more dominant than submissive, aggressive than passive? So why is it necessarily fair to expect or desire a Fox/Hybrid to approach you first? That’s the whole reason we are what we are: because we are more submissive than we are dominant (for the right wolf).
You’re not outside the norm, however. What you’re saying kind of reflects the current thought process of men these days. Even straight wolves.
40-50 years ago, this would have been completely different.
Being the aggressor/chaser was apart of being a man.
Maybe the problem is that there are too many bottoms and women available for wolves to really feel the need to go out of their way to know someone?
^THANK YOU.
Do these Wolves want us to fuck em too?
lol
So it sounds like we’re all really dealing with the same problem. Which may explain why so many “undesirables” get the attention: they put themselves front and center.
The thing is, I would never openly reject a man that was bold enough to approach me. I’m just not mean in that way. If anything, I’d say I was already in a relationship or something along those lines.
But you make sense.
Perfect example happened today.
I’m shopping today and I see two dudes shopping together. One really, REALLY cute one (he was like 5 stories taller than me though) and a shorter ratchet, fem one. The tall one bent over to pick up something and my knees nearly buckled. Tall WITH ass as well. His ratchet friend clearly saw me staring at him, but he’s the one that finds a reason to get in my space and speak. I nodded at him and walked away.
The cute are oblivious as hell too! I bet he didn’t even tell his friend I was looking at him either.
This dude just wants attention, he’s probably gettin raw dogged right……. now.
Real talk, I might’ve smashed pre-op…he’s a pretty boy if he toned down the make-up. Now though? Not even w/Jay’s d*ck…lol
I just saw this…
Eff u bro! Lmao!
I am totally speechless.
I’mma make y’all niggas laugh. About 3 months ago, I was with a female friend in the gym at my college. It was this dude that was playing one on one with her, he was giving me mad eye every 2 sec. and you know ya boi was eyeing him back. My dick was so hard it was about to bust like a water pipe and nut was gonna be everywhere. LOL. Fast forward to last Tuesday, I seen dude in the gameroom and he wasn’t staring at me at all, I was like that’s strange?, I said to myself fuck him, I don’t need that nigga. Here’s where it gets interesting. Today, I was eating dinner with another friend, and I saw the dude( atleast I thought it was him, keep reading :-). When I turned around, I saw two of him, I found out he’s a twin LOL, an identical one at that. I’m really considering going back to being straight again. Yea right.
You standing on the wall by yourself gazing into your phone is NOT approachable. You simply staring back and expecting someone to get the hint isn’t approachable either.
The ratchet dudes, the freaks, and the fems don’t give a fuck! They will walk right up to any dude and ask their name or simply start twerking on you, all the while the ones that actually have something going for themselves will let opportunity after opportunity slip away.
^so we need to come to you and start twerkin on you for you to take us seriously?
Not necessarily, but you don’t have to be do reserved either.
It wouldn’t hurt lol
But I’ve said it before – don’t always depend on the wolf to break the ice. I rarely approached – even the times I was in a gay club so I knew you got down…it’s just not in my personality. After the ice is broken, I relax, but it’s hard for me. I’ve kicked myself over missed opportunities because of it…
I was upset, most definitely. But then I realized, I put too much pressure on myself to make the first move. A wolf should be trying to get to know me too. Meaning, when he caught me looking at him, he should have been making moves to get to know me the same way I was trying to make moves to get to know him.
But yes. We will work on it this year.It’s a worthwhile goal.
Lol! We might be!
The crazy thing is, I get stared at and I definitely notice, but I’m always too timid to actually stare back. Or when I do, I second guess myself and turn my gaze away. To some, I probably look stuck up, but it’s really just because I’m nervous.
I’ll never forget. There was this one wolf that used to stare at me heavy. He was a good fit for me. Tall, basketball player build, tattoos, almond shaped eyes, and fat lips (I have a thing for lips). I used to always catch him staring, but I was so sure he wasn’t staring for THAT reason.
A year later, I found out he got down and was eye-fucking me the entire time. Of course by then, it was too late.
^I. KNOW. YOU. WERE. VEX.
See that is that bullshit I hate.
After continuous staring, he should walk up and ask something.
He liked your kicks.
Where you got your watch?
How did you find that sweater?
It isn’t hard.
I just want the Wolf to break the ice.
But realistically,
we do need to be more open with the eye contact.
We will work on it this year.
I have this problem. Really bad. I can never hold eye contact when it comes to picking up wolves. Mainly because I don’t want to offend anybody and get caught staring if they don’t get down. I need to work on that.
^RANDOM!
Are we brothers in real life?
This is me 110%
I can agree with this too. I get told this. “You’re too boy. I wouldn’t have even known.”
I can agree with this somewhat,
I need to work on that.
I get real intimidated because I cant tell “I want you” or “run em kicks”.
I know the fems try to get me and I run…. and fast.
LOL!
Any advice?
None what so ever. LOL
^corner Man….
now….
no treats for you tonight.
This is the way it goes, I’m not gonna talk to you if I can’t tell you’re down, that’s just the way it goes.
^but Shim Ting Shim is obvious.
I’m confused and I’m not femming anything up to meet a Wolf so that’s dead.
So how do you meet your Foxes????
Well, we all know that it’s in the eyes, that’s the only way. That’s the way DL men communicate, at least some of us do. The ones that don’t give eye contact kill me.
I love my Wolves that comment but realistically…
If they saw me, Vain, or Random or any of the other Foxes on the street…
with all of our fineness, sex appeal, fat asses, or whatever….
they would walk past us.
It’s just the reality.
I prolly would walk past y’all because I couldn’t tell that you’re down. I damn sure would have checked y’all out tho.
^and that is it!
The “check out” but with no purchase.
Yet, Rooti Tooti Fresh and Fruti up above gets all the sales.
And then doesn’t know how to handle it because he uses his ass as a penis floatation device.
All of you have it all wrong. Based on what Ive seen fems are more outgoing with it. They are also easy, clockable pickings. There’s no question they like dick, unlike the swole dude whos lifting 400lbs or the pretty boy who may just happen to be pretty.
You ever heard of just settling for the low hanging fruit? Of course there are some that just like fem dudes.
That “they get so much play because they’re clockable” only applies when we are out in a general place. But one can be standing in the middle of a gay club, by themselves, and still get the same lack of interaction as one would out in public.
So true! Posted up on the wall in gay club, bobbed to the music, smiling making sure I was approachable. Not a single bite oh but every dude who came in eye fucked me and kept it moving
Well I find we all different ideas of what looking approachable is.
^I agree.
Care to share your version?
What richiebornrich is true. All the dudes in the DMV do that and they wonder why they constantly have issues finding a dude. I attribute it to all dudes going after what pleases them sexually. Its a sad sad thing. Smh. Furthermore how the fuck you wear clothes with thighs and ass that big. Yuck!
^agreed Nerd.
Men look for other men for a nut…
… and this is why they are either a) alone or b) still chasing a standard that is only worth a nut.
REAL. MUTHAFUCKIN’. TALK!!!!!!! I think it’s all an act. All of that “I want a man’s man/ no fags” is all L-I-E-S! At the end of the day they want something soft. They’ll stare at me in the club all night but will never speak. But the cunt girl always seem to catch the most masculine ones.
But back to TaTa, i completely understand WHY she pumped herself. She was a cute girl before but thanks to images like the one in the gif, we’ve not set a different standard for what it means to be desirable. Men like that unrealistic, curvy girl… you want a man…. so be what men like in order to get one. Its that simple.
^THAT IS SO DEPRESSING….
…and so true.
These Wolves kill me with that “i want masculine”…
UMMMM NO.
Clearly not because TaTa is in serious business.
Wolves make fun of them…
because they desire to fuck them.
The bully picked on the girl because he likes her, not because he is mean.
(btw that applies to most situations in life)
This shit cray! To each their own, but I know in dc “pumped” queens pull sooooo many dudes… And I think it’s because they’re bodies resemble women so the dl, and bi dudes like it. And then there’s alot of guys that are just attracted to super femme dudes
Great question!
See me in the gym and won’t speak.
Might stare, but will never speak.
But let a twirling fem in pink spandex spin in. He’ll get a number before his session is over.
It makes me angry to lose to a fem dude,it’s sad. How are you gonna be DL and mess with a fem. just don’t get it.
^I just don’t get it….
I don’t know why d/l hood dudes would chase after him, I guess they like fem boys. SMH
LMFAO!!!!! That’s just scary!!!! I don’t think I would ever be drunk/randy/stoned/self-loathing enough to fuck that!!!!!!
Here in the UK there’s a tv show called – Snog (kiss), marry, or avoid, he is one to avoid!!!!!!!
Not coool …. I think a Georgia Peach needs to put him to shame …
^i think he would be considered one (depending on who you ask) LOL
Naw I would consider that a onion Booty … Big and stanking and makes u Cry …
He couldeve atleast got some breast to match and shaved the mustache…Really?
^He wanted to keep his “manliness” still…
Fem dudes kill me with this ish.
^so on a late horny night,
you wouldn’t beat it up?
Hell no, I want a real man in my arms at night.
^so let me ask you this…
why is it d/l hood Wolves chase after to fuck him…
and be much bolder than they would with me, Vain, or Random?
Please tell me it’s photoshop because he looks stupid as fuck.
^ass shots at it’s best.
new craze in the hood.
everyone is getting them to catch a man -__-