for the last couple days,
we have been fonting about attentionistos.
so i was having a discussion with one of the foxholers today.
it was about why attentionistos who end up on “onlyfans”.
the ones who claim “personal trainer” on ig.
this is what he had to font…
These dudes saw that meme about how much someone supposedly makes onlyfans and lost their damn minds lol A lot of these dudes just get into fitness because there’s no barriers to entry into the market. They figure they can get and keep clients just because they workout and have nice bodies. When they realize that isn’t enough to guarantee a decent cash flow and no one is buying these online programs they copy and paste they lose their minds. Personal training has to be PERSONAL and no successful trainer is making money off online training.
Shit most good trainers get chubby because they train others so much they barely have time to workout themselves.
another foxholer shared more insight as well:
“Contrary to popular belief there is virtually no money in personal training or bodybuilding outside of a select few who manage to break through. That’s why you see so many of these IG personal trainers and bodybuilders either stripping, escorting or doing porn on the side.” – kjd on “ronnie, i’m trying to blame “this” on the rain”
and this was a good one:
“Here’s a true example…I shot an up and coming fitness model/ bodybuilder a couple years ago. He had just got out of prison for drugs and decided to pursue the modeling/ fitness route as he started working out while incarcerated. Had kids he was taking care of too. We only shot clothing and underwear the first time. He is muscular and goodlooking…the epitome of what men and women desire. So, I shot him again about 1yr later and he told me he’d done other shoots and told me some of the experiences and indecent proposals he’d gotten. Well, he said while in the gym and in competitions he’d gotten several offers which he first turned down but after not being to find a good job and having bills, child support and the costs of maintaining his physique for fitness, he finally broke down and started taking the money. He says most gyms where fitness and bodybuilders work out have a subculture where services are bartered in exchange for something. He now has a sponsor that pays everything in exchange for sex and if he finds other male fitness and bodybuilders willing to have the guy as a sponsor with benefits he gets a bonus. He doesn’t consider himself gay but now just sexual. He says situations dictate changing his thoughts. He is not the only one so he says and he make no apologies for what he does. He even says now there’s a specific site for just male fitness and bodybuilders (ard 1000) only who do live cam shows, self made muscle worship/ jo vids and escorting/ meetups and membership is 99% male. Times have changed.” – cav on “marvin bienaime stars in “the whispers are getting louder” (alleged)”
i mean…
personal training is such an over saturated market online now.
lamont johnson was a personal trainer too.
why do i have a sneaky suspicion,
which is an alleged one,
that his clients are the alleged stars in his “onlyfans” sex videos?
he bangs a different vixen every video.
it might be because he’s one of the only straight wolves in atl also.
in my opinion,
it’s all the same struggle.
some of us get up to go to work and deal with shit.
the rest escort or hoe to deal with another kind of “shit” too.
some of us get paid every week or other week.
they get it in a lump sum.
the bills/child support is due every month.
no one is really better than the other.
it’s a hamster wheel no matter how you put it.
my beef with some of them is how ignorant they can be.
like,
don’t give the rest of us an attitude.
we come in peace.
that part of it is really interesting to me.
i guess i can get it tho.
the first time their backs got blown out for dollars,
especially claiming straight everywhere,
was probably quite the eye opening.
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i can see why that can cause an attitude problem.
lowkey: some of them have dissed the foxhole,
but ended up being the topic of discussion later on.
Once you have decided that your most valuable offering to the world is your body, it doesn’t seem like a far hop from there to slinging dick/ass. People who decide such things tend not to have very many other options. As with every other source of funds, being broke in old age is a function of planning…not becoming less attractive..not realizing that sugar daddy relationships dont last. If you spend every penny you earn, you will be broke no matter how you earn that money. I know a couple of guys who have been hoing for 25 years..all the way from twink to daddy bear. One has always set aside a few dollars from each trick and the other goes straight from the trick to dealer/ club or the Nike store. Guess which one will be homeless soon and which one just got back from Barcelona? Men cant catch the right baby and be set for 20 years. So they have to be smarter with theirs. #MakeThatOnlyFansMoneyWhileYouCanBoo
People forget how expensive it is to look like these fitness. Models
The steroids, the clean foods, and The time. It’s a full time. Job
This isn’t messing around though. I think that’s where a lot of these gay whales are getting it wrong especially. So many of these gay4pay relationships end badly. You can call the man gay or bi, but that’s not going to stop them from going back to their girl when the money dries up.
Now if a man is getting down for his own sexual gratification that is another story.
Masculinity is mostly a social construct. As gay men we can attest to it. We put straight men on some kind of masculinity pedestal that we never lived up to ourselves. Men are more fashionable, care more about cosmetics, and as we’ve seen don’t have a problem tootin it up in the air for money 😂
Prostitution in all forms is still the oldest occupation so I’m not surprised at all unfortunately. Folks need to understand there’s no longevity in it though. Look at many of these black straight and gay porn stars, they are not well off and still having to perform when you can clearly see that they’re over it. Cattle for the masses i guess. At point does it become acceptable to sell your soul for a few dollars, not even life changing dollars but ‘i can get some clothes dollars’. Sad
Ya know. Im not a messy person…and I try to be honest. I know of one dude who is messing around and has a whole girl. He’s exactly that type in this post. I feel bad cause it’s not my business but I really don’t like that. These folks who escort better enjoy it while it last. I know we were not raised in the same environments. I try to keep from sounding harsh or anything and sometimes I can be strongly opinionated.
Me and bf usually have a disagreement or two since I get online trying to “make people” think like I do (as he says I do) which I really don’t..I just make people research for better opportunities.
Topics like this always get my harsh treatment since I strongly feel folks should be more “careful” with their bodies. I don’t know. I mean escorting, Chaturbate/Onlyfans cash. Would you be okay with someone messing around with your bf or gf? I know the money sounds nice but I don’t know about it. The fact that someone else has been in and all up near my man might make me a bit indignant and it’s not me being insecure (speaking of which, I’ll be waiting on y’all report on the new episode.) Back on subject.
I really don’t think it’s good. That’s why you never see relationships like that last for very long. I’ve never heard of a retired escort getting benefits of any kind. These folks are living in the present and not investing in the future. I know it’s not my money or business, I was just saying…😅
What’s the site he mentioned?
Gay for pay seems to be the new trend now. Most of these guys use being “massage therapist”, “personal trainers”, etc as a front to advertise their sex appeal to potential clients. But imo they shouldn’t jump on the onlyfans/webcam wave. Instead of having your business all over the net, they should stick to escorting and collecting their money behind the scenes.
I’m not mad though, they’re not hurting anybody. People always belittle and look down on others in the sex industry, while simultaneously enjoying the services they provide.
Chile. I was listening to “The Read” podcast and someone wrote in staying that their partner earned $40,000 from escorting and his OnlyFans/chaturbate account. These boys are getting coins from the gays. I can’t hate lol.
But…
I wish they’d stop claiming straight all while taking dick better than me. Sexuality is a spectrum and it’s okay to identify as bisexual+. You can’t enjoy a man’s dick inside you and still claim that your straight, it’s delusional. Also, it’s odd that that the ones who disrespect gay men… pander to them. Multiple pictures of their ass, hundreds of videos them doing squats, obvious dick prints… and then will make statements telling gay men to chill out. Bitch, if you don’t want gay men to take the bait, don’t bait them! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@the lonelywriter…THAT is the one thing I don’t understand about many of these guys. It is SO obvious they are trying to bait/tease gay dudes with their pics, but get “offended” when a comment is made. Like you said, if they don’t want the comments…don’t bait people, because they know full well what they’re really doing!
Paying for a fitness program is like whatever because just like you’ll find their porn on social media platform for free, you can find training videos and guides online for free too about fitness. It’s really a waste of time.
My line of work can be hard but is also very lucrative. I don’t really exercise as much outside of my job, though I walk on weekends when I’m off or do light aerobics/cardio. Honestly, if people just ate like they were supposed to and did casual workouts they’d be fine unless they wanted to bulk up. My bf does that boxing mess now because he likes those overdramatic Rocky movies, or whatever. If he sees that as motivation, so be it. 🙄 I’m fine with jist general exercises and decent eating.
Most folks don’t have time to sit in the gym all day just to post pics on Instagram for likes.
Listen, I’m going to get a lot of glares for this but one part of this post makes me cringe.
Im so sick of grown people with this sexuality mess, you mess with a man and you are a man, you are either gay or bisexual. I don’t know where these people get this..”I’m just a sexual person” excuse from, but it’s all bull. All living things on Earth are “sexual” but just cause you’re choosing to have sex with a man because of “circumstances” doesn’t excuse you from your “homosexual” (same-sex) behavior? Deal with it. But that’s the problem..they don’t want to deal with the consequences so they try to glaze over it.
What they are really saying is, “I want fast money without putting too much effort into real work.”
Ain’t no way in heck is slutting yourself out to strangers a “respectable” way of living. Some folks might think otherwise because they get their nut off to it, but these folks only want you for your body and once that’s all washed up, then what? Is it really an even exchange? They will always have money, while you’ll have to maintain that fantasy to cash a check to pay bills and support a family. What aggravates me the most is people making excuses for them and this behavior. Like they legit bring children into this world, have a girl at hime but still sleeping around with dudes on the side…I mean that’s pretty terrible to be honest.
They too good to flip a burger but will flip over for a sausage. Lord…
Also Jamari, is cashapp like PayPal or something? I’ve heard several folks talking about it and someone mentioned at work. Is the green button down there? How does it work?
^yeah it’s like paypal.
it’s a lot easy and faster because it uses your number and it’s directly connected to your bank account.
I agree on the sexuality thing. Granted circumstances do factor in. With that one dude coming out of prison I can understand him escorting. He probably cant get good paying jobs and he was also used to seeing sex bartering in prison. That being said dude you’re in the very least bisexual. But I digress. Then you have the guys who dont necessarily have to but escort cuz the money is large and quick. They dont get how fleeting it is or an old white man’s interest. Bundle that up with being attractive and young and the attitudes jump out. Honestly I’ve linked with a couple of dudes who I know escorted on the side (didnt pay even tho I dont shame it) and foreal the sex was mediocre. Alot of the dudes are just all hype.
None of this suprises me
I actually follow one of those hot guys on instagram who does the personal training
He started off posting hot pics to get his followers up and then he wanted to transition into posting more fitness posts. I guess that that was not helping to pay the bills so now he’s back to posting the hot pics. He still post fitness tips in his stories which is good. He’s a cool, friendly guy who has nooooo problem with the gays showing love and he will go far.
Some of them are cool about gay guys commenting and/or showing them love. Others, can be rude and nasty.
The majority of the guys I follow, they genuinely nice. The others are just there for eye candy. Any negativity, I just unfollow them.
I had one guy say to me once, after I made a comment on his story he posted (nothing rude/nasty), he doesn’t like dudes hitting him up in his DMs.
I had to remind him that any response to the stories goes to the DM, so he should take up his issue with Instagram.