Crushes are meant to be crushed.
Yup and I’ll tell you why…
When you see someone over a period of time,
and something about them draws you to them,
a “crush” is formed.
It could be a small attraction that lasts a few weeks,
or it could develop into “infatuation” that can last years.
You begin to imagine what this person would be like as your “man”.
You fantasize about them and turn into a mini-stalker.
Don’t worry, it is normal.
I’m not judging you because I have been there.
But always remember, this image of this person is just a fantasy.
This is NOT what would really happen if you dated them.
Most of the times, it just a prolonged lust.
You can enjoy your fantasies as much as you want,
as long as you realize that it is just a fantasy.
I have crushed on some of the BADDEST Wolves in the Wolf business.
You could not tell me I wasn’t going to get any of them.
But, after a while, I started to use my logical mind and see the real person.
More often than not, I was turned off and mad I wasted so much time.
I only saw that one person and never paid attention to other options.
Once I realized this, I move on from crushes pretty fast.
Also remember this:
God did not stop when he made fine dick and ass.
There are a lot more of that same image out there, waiting to be conquered.
Never fix your attention on one person because that is not healthy.
You may spend years obsessing over him and never have it come into fruition.
Besides that, someone out there is crushing on you.
Someone out there masturbates to the thought of you.
And you may not be for them.
I don’t make the rules but it always happens that way.
Always try to see the real person before the crush is formed.
I guarantee you will fall the hell out.
Just a word from the Foxhole.