over the years,
i learned what the words “constructive” and “criticism” meant.
i use to be tough af,
but i have learned to dial that all the way back.
some hyenas tho…
they want to straight violate you and act like their saint paul in christ.
i don’t know about you…
but if you disrespect me while trying to give me advice,
you will never speak to me again.
i promise you that.
some gay hyenas have this nasty habit of hitting below the belt.
if you going through it,
they will legit drag you while trying to play the “Jesus”.
like we on some “housewife” reality show.
the way how my cold shoulder would be set up after that…
it kills me how we often forget what they once went through.
when shit was tough,
the lights was off,
no one was fuckin with us,
and we were 2 blocks away from suicide…
Did we want someone like “us” to give advice at that low point in our lives?
if you said “yes”,
you know you are full of shit.
so when it comes to the words “constructive criticism”,
that means being able to give realistic advice to their situation.
“constructive” in offering solutions,
while “critiquing” where they may have went wrong.
take being an asshole out of it.
if you deem the situation as stupid,
then instead of shade,
you build the person up so see they’re better than what they’re going through.
no one wants to feel worse while they’re already feeling worst.
if that makes any sense.
it sounded good in my head.
if you can’t give constructive criticism right then just listen.
it helps knowing someone is just there.
by listening tho,
you should be able to drop a gem in their ear off what they’re saying.
unless you just dead inside,
you should be able to have some kind of empathy.
am i wrong?